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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Feb 20 2013 at 5:33pm
Originally posted by SamoneLenior SamoneLenior wrote:


yeah the person you are at 20 is not always the same person at 30, 40, 50 lol


This...

Ask me for $20 bucks or a ride to the store, you can be anybody and I got you.

Ask me to give you career contacts, now I have to look at you as an investment.

That's the point I'm making. Not all requests are equal.
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Feb 20 2013 at 5:35pm
Originally posted by modelbusiness82 modelbusiness82 wrote:


Originally posted by SamoneLenior SamoneLenior wrote:


yeah the person you are at 20 is not always the same person at 30, 40, 50 lol




This...

Ask me for $20 bucks or a ride to the store, you can be anybody and I got you.

Ask me to give you career contacts, now I have to look at you as an investment.

That's the point I'm making. Not all requests are equal.


The second is a professional request.
You don't see the difference ?
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Feb 20 2013 at 5:35pm
I think this is a age differential issue so let's agree to disagree here lol.

In short, if a friend asked you to hook them up with a position at your job, and they effed up to the 10th degree, it reflects on you, and now your boss looks at you as a liability because of your friend's bad judgement. So those kind of "favors" and help are the ones I'm talking about. Not basic requests.
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Feb 20 2013 at 5:35pm

I think model is saying a friend could make that professional request

sometimes a favor is more than a favor

even between friends and family
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Feb 20 2013 at 5:36pm
*PMs modelbiz my Paypal so I can get that AJ* 
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Feb 20 2013 at 5:37pm
Originally posted by modelbusiness82 modelbusiness82 wrote:

I think this is a age differential issue so let's agree to disagree here lol.

In short, if a friend asked you to hook them up with a position at your job, and they effed up to the 10th degree, it reflects on you, and now your boss looks at you as a liability because of your friend's bad judgement. So those kind of "favors" and help are the ones I'm talking about. Not basic requests.


girl, yes

that is why it is best not to mix the two if you can

I think working in completely different industries could help

you can still help and inspire each other without crossing professional paths


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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Feb 20 2013 at 5:37pm
yeah.. im with jones on this one. 
a professional and a personal favor isn't the same. 

and i didn't think thats what we were talking about. 
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Feb 20 2013 at 5:38pm
Originally posted by jonesable jonesable wrote:

Originally posted by modelbusiness82 modelbusiness82 wrote:


Originally posted by SamoneLenior SamoneLenior wrote:


yeah the person you are at 20 is not always the same person at 30, 40, 50 lol




This...

Ask me for $20 bucks or a ride to the store, you can be anybody and I got you.

Ask me to give you career contacts, now I have to look at you as an investment.

That's the point I'm making. Not all requests are equal.


The second is a professional request.
You don't see the difference ?


I understand, but you don't seem to be understanding that I'm telling you that "friends" come to me asking me for big ticket favors, so I have to eye them as an investment at that point when the value of their favor goes up.
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Feb 20 2013 at 5:39pm
No I really think this morphed into something wasn't talking about but I guess that the nature of things.

No I don't really think this has that much to do with age as I know people evolve but I've seen very comfortable people give out favors without all of that pretense.

Some people lofty position or not do for people they care about for kindness sake.
Honestly they do.



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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Feb 20 2013 at 5:39pm
Originally posted by FarraFace FarraFace wrote:

*PMs modelbiz my Paypal so I can get that AJ* 


LOL *waiting!*
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