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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Feb 20 2013 at 4:30pm
I'm not even talking about her or her scenario at this point though.

But I see
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Feb 20 2013 at 4:32pm
Aaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaand she a Scorpio... GIRLUH!
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Feb 20 2013 at 4:34pm
Originally posted by BeatriceBean BeatriceBean wrote:

Aaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaand she a Scorpio... GIRLUH!


I'm a scorpio...don't put that on me lol.
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Feb 20 2013 at 4:40pm
Originally posted by jonesable jonesable wrote:

Yeah we're still thinking about this completely different.

That's why I asked you about how you approach this when it came to a friend so we could focus this a bit


helping a friend and helping your man are two different things
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Feb 20 2013 at 4:42pm

actually, when I think about it


if I helped a friend get their life together and they peaced out once they got their sh*t straight I would be like well f you to then

I mean if we never had a falling out and you just up and end the friendship after your life is now improved thanks to me, yep I would feel a certain way
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Feb 20 2013 at 4:44pm
It wasn't to really say they are similar.I just want to gauge how people feel about helping or " upgrading" people on general.
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Feb 20 2013 at 4:45pm
IMO an investment is an investment, whether it's a friend, relative, business contact or SO.

I can make more money, I can make more contacts. But my time is the most valuable thing I have. So if I take time from my life to help you out/point you in the right direction/etc, you need to know that the favor should be returned if and when the opportunity presents itself.

Because if I come to you in my time of need and you act salty...we're done.
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Feb 20 2013 at 4:47pm

I am a super appreciative person

I can't imagine ending a relationship after someone has stood by me and helped me reach my goals

if the relationship is going to sh*t for other reasons, fine

but if not, how dare you drop someone completely after they help you

at least keep in touch lol
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Feb 20 2013 at 4:50pm
Originally posted by modelbusiness82 modelbusiness82 wrote:

IMO an investment is an investment, whether it's a friend, relative, business contact or SO.

I
can make more money, I can make more contacts. But my time is the most
valuable thing I have. So if I take time from my life to help you
out/point you in the right direction/etc, you need to know that the
favor should be returned if and when the opportunity presents itself.

Because if I come to you in my time of need and you act salty...we're done.





Damn.

See yeah I don't do favors with eye on getting a return on my investment .
I do it bc the person is my friend and I love then.

And ibc they love me I'm sure if I ever needed help they would help me without question.

But I don't look at it as a return .
Eww

The way your phrased that seems so cold and calculating.
I don't like friendships like that

Edited by jonesable - Feb 20 2013 at 4:51pm
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Feb 20 2013 at 4:51pm
Originally posted by jonesable jonesable wrote:

 

Damn.

See yeah I don't do favors with eye on getting a return on my investment .
I do it bc the person is my friend and I love then.

And ibc they love me I'm sure if I ever needed help they would help me without question.

But I don't look at it as a return .
Eww
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