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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Feb 20 2013 at 4:51pm
 
Originally posted by ScorpioLuv ScorpioLuv wrote:

For what? He's laughing at this now. I've helped him be healthy and start to get his life together, something his mom failed at. So huh? 


this is not the first time ive seen you compare yourself to his mother. 

i feel like your issues with your mother, and seeing his issues with his mother, makes you want to be a better mother for him.. fill that void.  
like that is the only way i can wrap my head around you taking on this role and doing thee utmost for a guy youve been dating 6 months.. like you dont care about any other factors aside from him crying about all the wrong theyve done to him.  
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Feb 20 2013 at 4:53pm
Originally posted by modelbusiness82 modelbusiness82 wrote:

Originally posted by BeatriceBean BeatriceBean wrote:

Aaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaand she a Scorpio... GIRLUH!


I'm a scorpio...don't put that on me lol.
 
Didn't you just say that you're not nice when crossed? LOL I think it applies to you too!
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Feb 20 2013 at 4:53pm
honestly, if a friend saw helping me out as "upgrading" me. i'd be mega bothered. 
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Feb 20 2013 at 4:58pm
Originally posted by jonesable jonesable wrote:

Originally posted by modelbusiness82 modelbusiness82 wrote:

IMO an investment is an investment, whether it's a friend, relative, business contact or SO.

I
can make more money, I can make more contacts. But my time is the most
valuable thing I have. So if I take time from my life to help you
out/point you in the right direction/etc, you need to know that the
favor should be returned if and when the opportunity presents itself.

Because if I come to you in my time of need and you act salty...we're done.





Damn.

See yeah I don't do favors with eye on getting a return on my investment .
I do it bc the person is my friend and I love then.

And ibc they love me I'm sure if I ever needed help they would help me without question.

But I don't look at it as a return .
Eww

The way your phrased that seems so cold and calculating.
I don't like friendships like that


Don't take this as shade when I say it but:

I run in circles of upwardly mobile ppl. To take take take and never give back is highly frowned upon in my circle, as you should never want to do well and see your crew struggling. This industry I'm in (entertainment) is hard. Almost all my friends work in entertainment or social media, etc. If you don't have people watching your back or looking out for you, you won't succeed.

IMO, you should never ask for help with the intent to never want to give back in return. So, for someone to get mad because the unspoken understanding of my help is that "when I need you I will call" is a sign that they're not mature enough to understand how life really works (people helping people) and it is them in fact who are the selfish ones.

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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Feb 20 2013 at 4:59pm
i know a guy kinda like that... 

hes a scorpio too. Stern Smile
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Feb 20 2013 at 5:00pm
Originally posted by BeatriceBean BeatriceBean wrote:

Originally posted by modelbusiness82 modelbusiness82 wrote:

Originally posted by BeatriceBean BeatriceBean wrote:

Aaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaand she a Scorpio... GIRLUH!


I'm a scorpio...don't put that on me lol.
 
Didn't you just say that you're not nice when crossed? LOL I think it applies to you too!


Haha...yes but I don't pop off at my SO's fam. Nor do I get involved in his sometimes messy situations.

Honestly I've learned to control my temper over the years. Not everything deserves a 0 - 100 sec response. I've become the type that if I don't care for someone, I usually just leave them alone. They're not worth my time to go back and forth with them, etc. The time I waste beefing with someone I can't stand is time I'm taking away from me.

It's great to be emotional, but you have to know when to get involved and when to save your energy.
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Feb 20 2013 at 5:00pm
Model what are you talking about lol.
I work with politicians/ lawyers /judges I know all Bout that.


I'm not talking about business connections right now.
I'm talking about friends.

You think of your friends with a business frame of mind all the time?

Damn that's kinda weird to me and kinda seedy IMO.

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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Feb 20 2013 at 5:01pm
Originally posted by jonesable jonesable wrote:

Model what are you talking about lol.
I work with politicians/ lawyers /judgesI know all Bout that.


I'm not talking about business connections right now.
I'm talking about friends.

You think of your friends with a business frame of mind?

Damn that's kinda weird to me and kindly seedy


Many of my friends I also represent as clients. :) And others become business partners. So, there's a time to play and there's a time to understand that this isn't a game for me.

But on the flip side, ppl don't come to me on BS. They know what I expect. And likewise, I don't run around wasting other ppl's time too. The same rules I demand of others I demand of myself - no hypocrisy here.
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Feb 20 2013 at 5:03pm
Model , ok can we pause for a second with the rambling.

I'm talking about in a friend context.
So you only see your friends in a business perspective?

That's it that's all?


I don't know where your picked up the professional context from this is not what I'm asking.




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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Feb 20 2013 at 5:04pm
Originally posted by BeatriceBean BeatriceBean wrote:

Originally posted by modelbusiness82 modelbusiness82 wrote:

Originally posted by BeatriceBean BeatriceBean wrote:

Aaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaand she a Scorpio... GIRLUH!


I'm a scorpio...don't put that on me lol.

 

Didn't you just say that you're not nice when crossed? LOL I think it applies to you too!
holy shyt I'm a Scorpio as well got damn it. I'm awesome. I don't curse family out.
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