| Author |
|
ms_wonderland 
Elite Member
Joined: Apr 05 2009
Location: TTT
Status: Online
Points: 178535
|
 Post Options
 Thanks(0)
 Quote  Reply
 Posted: Feb 10 2013 at 1:54am |
 foxyroy19 wrote:
ms_wonderland wrote:
I think it would end badly for me too. |
Yeah. The cheater might spill the beans on your man too  |
lol, i was waiting for a comment like this.
but no...my bew is wide open. and def ain't spending his nights at other folks houses.
Edited by ms_wonderland - Feb 10 2013 at 1:55am
|
 |
|
Sponsored Links
|
|
|
ms_wonderland
Elite Member
Joined: Apr 05 2009
Location: TTT
Status: Online
Points: 178535
|
Post Options
Thanks(0)
Quote Reply
Posted: Feb 10 2013 at 1:58am |
PurpleHaze wrote:
just for fun, do you think your guy would tell his pal if he found signs of her cheating on the computer?
|
yeah i think he would. we already saw one of his best friends girls riding in the car with another dude one day in traffic. he called and told him...i was LOLing but i think he did it bc he really doesn't like her.
|
|
ms_wonderland
Elite Member
Joined: Apr 05 2009
Location: TTT
Status: Online
Points: 178535
|
Post Options
Thanks(0)
Quote Reply
Posted: Feb 10 2013 at 2:09am |
ShadyLady wrote:
If I really liked her and saw her as a friend, I would tell. Matter of fact, I probably woulda called her to come over right then and there so she could see for herself.
I would do it cuz I would wanna know.
If one of my friends found out my man was cheating on me and then waited til after the ish hit the fan to tell me she's been looking me in my face all along, I would feel some type of way.
If you do decide not to say anything, don't ever let on you knew and didn't say anything. She may resent you letting her be the last to know. Just play shocked along with everyone else. |
we all hung out earlier today. i felt weird but i am not going to do anything about it and pretend as if i didn't see anything. there's really no way for me to feel comfortable enough saying it and i'm not about to go hunting for him on the site and fwd the info to her...it's just doing too much. im the type of person who lives with a heavy conscious when i feel like ive done something wrong but most ppl don't think that way so i'll have to ignore that side of myself.
|
|
Ds2nice
Senior Member
Joined: Apr 04 2006
Location: United States
Status: Offline
Points: 4081
|
Post Options
Thanks(0)
Quote Reply
Posted: Feb 11 2013 at 10:34am |
Since you only known them for a short period of time, I would mind my own business.
|
|
Wildfire
Elite Member
Joined: May 27 2006
Location: Kingston, JA.
Status: Offline
Points: 50658
|
Post Options
Thanks(5)
Quote Reply
Posted: Feb 11 2013 at 12:34pm |
Az~Maverick wrote:
STAY. OUT. OF. IT.
If she doesn't know by now, she'll find out on her own. Allow her to do just that. Sad to say, there's plenty of women out there that'll go crazy over a man, and still keep him.....no matter how shytty he is. She'll be fine when she "wakes up". |
if we would all quit this mindset, maybe the world would be a better place. --and that goes for everything
|
|
BBpants
VIP Member
Joined: Aug 24 2011
Location: No1curr
Status: Offline
Points: 101602
|
Post Options
Thanks(1)
Quote Reply
Posted: Feb 11 2013 at 3:26pm |
Op, I'm glad you have some common sense unlike some folks and didn't spill the beans!!
|
|
Az~Maverick
Elite Member
Joined: Jan 08 2008
Location: Arizona
Status: Offline
Points: 33378
|
Post Options
Thanks(0)
Quote Reply
Posted: Feb 11 2013 at 3:42pm |
Wildfire wrote:
Az~Maverick wrote:
STAY. OUT. OF. IT.
If she doesn't know by now, she'll find out on her own. Allow her to do just that. Sad to say, there's plenty of women out there that'll go crazy over a man, and still keep him.....no matter how shytty he is. She'll be fine when she "wakes up". |
if we would all quit this mindset, maybe the world would be a better place. --and that goes for everything
|
Yeah......but in THIS case, ( unless she was being physically abused) her staying in it could backfire. Plus, she hasn't even known them that long, so what would be the point?
Edited by Az~Maverick - Feb 11 2013 at 3:47pm
|
|
keepgrowing
Elite Member
Joined: Aug 10 2006
Status: Offline
Points: 29054
|
Post Options
Thanks(4)
Quote Reply
Posted: Feb 11 2013 at 3:50pm |
|
If you aren't going to tell her then don't hang out with them anymore. No need to put yourself in that awkward situation and it sucks that everyone in that group knows she is being cheated on now, but her.
|
|
ShadyLady
VIP Member
Joined: Sep 11 2011
Location: US-Florida
Status: Offline
Points: 65865
|
Post Options
Thanks(1)
Quote Reply
Posted: Feb 11 2013 at 3:54pm |
PurpleHaze wrote:
just for fun, do you think your guy would tell his pal if he found signs of her cheating on the computer?
|
My boyfriend would tell/has told. He saw his homeboy's girl on that homegrown freaks site, and not only told dude, but sent him the link. But I guarantee you if it was a case where I had dirt on one of his friends, he would say "we should stay out of it" and "mind our business". Bros before hos I guess .
|
|
Tweet
Topic Options
