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ms_wonderland 
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 Posted: Feb 08 2013 at 5:04pm |
 Addicted19034 wrote:
It's a weird situation because if the time frame
Since you just met the girl it's kinda awakened but at the same time you like her and want the relationship to grow.
If t was my girl I would tell her. But it's hard to say in this situation. I would let it ride out for now. |
that's what i told my friend yesterday...like if it were her, it would be no question...but this, ahhhh...
 that would be a good spin off @ CC
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Posted: Feb 08 2013 at 5:20pm |
just for fun,  do you think your guy would tell his pal if he found signs of her cheating on the computer?
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Posted: Feb 08 2013 at 6:16pm |
imo, AIDS is too real to be leaving her in the dark. at the ame time, collecting "evidence" and stuff sounds really out there to me. like, are you really gonna play detective and for someone you just met? i honestly wouldn't know what to do in your situation op. if it's my bestie though I will def snitch; I got my own man and she's not a petty woman to think I'm trying to do her wrong.
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Posted: Feb 08 2013 at 6:44pm |
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go ahead and drop us the name of the dating sites and his username. TIA.
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Posted: Feb 08 2013 at 6:49pm |
so how old should a friendship be before it's appropriate for one to tell a friend that her bf is cheating, since the consensus is that 6 months is not long enough? 
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Posted: Feb 09 2013 at 12:30am |
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STAY. OUT. OF. IT.
If she doesn't know by now, she'll find out on her own. Allow her to do just that. Sad to say, there's plenty of women out there that'll go crazy over a man, and still keep him.....no matter how shytty he is. She'll be fine when she "wakes up".
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Posted: Feb 09 2013 at 1:43am |
zolloh wrote:
so how old should a friendship be before it's appropriate for one to tell a friend that her bf is cheating, since the consensus is that 6 months is not long enough?
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Right? This topic really does need to be made into a thread.
Edited by carolina cutie - Feb 09 2013 at 1:43am
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Posted: Feb 09 2013 at 3:07pm |
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make the thread CC
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Posted: Feb 09 2013 at 7:07pm |
ms_wonderland wrote:
I think it would end badly for me too. |
Yeah. The cheater might spill the beans on your man too
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Posted: Feb 10 2013 at 1:49am |
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If I really liked her and saw her as a friend, I would tell. Matter of fact, I probably woulda called her to come over right then and there so she could see for herself.
I would do it cuz I would wanna know.
If one of my friends found out my man was cheating on me and then waited til after the ish hit the fan to tell me she's been looking me in my face all along, I would feel some type of way.
If you do decide not to say anything, don't ever let on you knew and didn't say anything. She may resent you letting her be the last to know. Just play shocked along with everyone else.
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