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sistagal 
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 Posted: Feb 08 2013 at 1:04am |
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Forward the emails to her...start some drama |
lol so everyone can be mad at me? |
You should have forwarded from his email. No one would ever prove you did it. If he figures out it was probably because his email was still logged in at your house let your man take the blame lol
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Posted: Feb 08 2013 at 1:32am |
Organic wrote:
 OP, I know you are in a precarious situation, especially with you being fond of them both. Good luck.
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i know it's my fault but thank you. lol
everyone makes good points in here...bhm is the best. 
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She knows. No need to tell her. She just had a baby..she doesn't need the stress. She still has to deal with this man, so don't make it any harder for her by letting her know you know as well.
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Do you recall the names of the hookup websites? Do you remember his screenname? If you do, you don't have to say "Your man is cheating and I have proof." Send her an e-mail with a link to his profile, just as a "thought you should see this" and she'll connect the dots for herself. Most likely she'll ask him to own the account and see all the activity.
If you're not feeling so brave, make up a fake e-mail (that you still think she'd open mail from) and there you go. Don't respond to any responses about who you are, how you know them, etc. If you take that route, delete the account as soon as you know she's received it.
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Posted: Feb 08 2013 at 10:44am |
BeatriceBean wrote:
Do you recall the names of the hookup websites? Do you remember his screenname? If you do, you don't have to say "Your man is cheating and I have proof." Send her an e-mail with a link to his profile, just as a "thought you should see this" and she'll connect the dots for herself. Most likely she'll ask him to own the account and see all the activity.
If you're not feeling so brave, make up a fake e-mail (that you still think she'd open mail from) and there you go. Don't respond to any responses about who you are, how you know them, etc. If you take that route, delete the account as soon as you know she's received it. |
Yep. I agree with this. I would want someone to let me know. Couldn't sleep at night knowing this girl is raw dogging a cheater.
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Posted: Feb 08 2013 at 10:55am |
ALL OF THIS. Im snitching.mfkas stay sneaking, not giving ppl the option to take the risk by continuing to deal with him. Just gross selfishness.
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Nah, id be 99.99% that it's not an open relationship. I think he's just not getting it like he was before the baby. |
...and if he's so damn horny and inconsiderate that he can't keep it in his pants after his girlfriend just had HIS baby, I'd sing like a frikkin canary. The hell?
Hearing this always grates my nerves. I don't think much else gets me as cross.
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Posted: Feb 08 2013 at 10:56am |
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Never do anything BHM tells you to do.
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I'd just tell her to check out his email. I'd say I saw something on accident and it may be nothing, but I'd feel bad not mentioning it just in case. That way everything is up to her. If she wants to snoop, peachy...if not, then I tried. I'd also be okay losing a friend. Guilt is not something I handle well and I'd feel extremely guilty.
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Posted: Feb 08 2013 at 11:19am |
i like BB's idea of sending an email to her (new email addy) with a link to the site and his username..
and you could add in a little note about how he has been making arrangements to meet up with a few different women
there is still a chance of him remembering that he didnt sign out of your comp and him suspecting you though..
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