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Originally posted by Flowing-Ice Flowing-Ice wrote:

Originally posted by EPITOME EPITOME wrote:

Originally posted by Flowing-Ice Flowing-Ice wrote:

lol... who's relationship dynamic includes cheating?
wth?

you've never heard of an open marriage/open relationship?

or...as long as he doesn't bring anything home. people put up w/different things.

in such a relationship... that wouldn't be considered cheating. 
if it does turn out to be that way... then what would the problem with telling lol? 

the conversation would be smooth. 

thats not a real reason not to tell someone that their partner is cheating on them. 


maybe she doesn't want ppl knowing her business?

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Nah, id be 99.99% that it's not an open relationship. I think he's just not getting it like he was before the baby.
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I'd tell the girlfriend,

"Hey, you should really tell your boyfriend to be sure to log out of his email account, especially if he has questionable content Stern Smile".

She can take that as she may. If I were building a relationship with someone, I'd find a circuitous way to mention it without being too ambiguous. I'd also want someone to tell me. I'd really, really want someone to tell me. I'd be pissed if you smile in my face and act like nothing is wrong when you have knowledge of wrongdoings that I may not be privy to.

..I'd just be like,

"...your boyfriend left his e-mail account open on my computer. You may want to look through it with him Stern SmileStern SmileStern SmileStern SmileStern SmileStern SmileStern Smile"
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Originally posted by ms_wonderland ms_wonderland wrote:

Nah, id be 99.99% that it's not an open relationship. I think he's just not getting it like he was before the baby.


...and if he's so damn horny and inconsiderate that he can't keep it in his pants after his girlfriend just had HIS baby, I'd sing like a frikkin canary. The hell?

Hearing this always grates my nerves. I don't think much else gets me as cross.
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Originally posted by ms_wonderland ms_wonderland wrote:

Nah, id be 99.99% that it's not an open relationship. I think he's just not getting it like he was before the baby.



well that's gross and selfish
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HugOP, I know you are in a precarious situation, especially with you being fond of them both. Good luck.


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I'd ask her to hang out on the solo tip & bring some alcohol. You two would be alone to talk woman to woman. Ask her how are things after the baby, with ol boy etc. For example just be like "I noticed Johnny been hanging around a lot lately, is everything okay?" Or "I know having a baby can put a strain on certain things in life. If you need to talk just let me know."

You gonna have her guards down enough to see where she is at mentally & if she even has an idea about him cheating. Sometimes you have to enter a situation like this through the back alley.

Build her trust so you can help her discover the truth herself. I wouldn't say sh*t. Just lead her to the water.
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i would tell. he was the idiot that left his email signed in on your computer. the only thing is that u might lose a friend. don't expect for her to be all kumbayaya sista hood. or maybe you shouldn't cause the messenger always gets shot in situations like these. but then again, if you knew and don't tell, shell prolly get mad.  

then again, maybe u should cause its better than her finding out by getting burned cause I doubt that they are using condoms

ya i unno. u can't win either way..but it is about her life not urs.

but honestly, ive seen situations like these and each time the girl/guy stayed until she/he was ready to leave. part of her probably already knows.

i unno girl. just do what you feel is best. gl lol.


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Listening to people on BHM will get you choked LOL

Honestly I wouldn't say anything. It's not my place.
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just forget it's thier problems if he didn't try anything with you nothing to tell.
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