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Would you guys consider talking about a situation in which you personally were wronged/venting about someone you live with/venting about a co-worker in the same pool of gossipy/hater negativity?
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Originally posted by beautiful-stranger beautiful-stranger wrote:

Would you guys consider talking about a situation in which you personally were wronged/venting about someone you live with/venting about a co-worker in the same pool of gossipy/hater negativity?

No.
Sharing your life experience is healthy. Bashing someone over something that doesnt impact your 3 F's is not.
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I like YouTube but I could care less about their personal lives I don't like gossiping either it's pointless.

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0.00000000001% haterd energy excreted
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For me, the words "hating/hater" implies jealousy.
The people that usually toss that word the most, usually have the least going for them.
I'm not sure of the true definition, but from my observation, it's a popular word for the type of people that live a lifestyle that's chocked full of self destructive actions and thoughts, that have this unrealistic view that they will not be held accountable or judged for their rather common displays of ignorance and stupidity.

They're usually in a situation that folks with common sense would have no desire to be in. Lol
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Not familiar with the site, but reading what someone puts out on the Internet is not wrong. Like you said, you sometimes come away with useful info.    
Responding with hurtful/negative comments is hateful, we must consider how we would feel reading hateful/negative comments directed at ourselves.
Talking about things among your friends maliciously is not the best, but is still considered 'kitchen table talk', as long as it does not get back to the person you're speaking about . Another thing to consider is, how you feel after making these comments.
We all have just a little bit of that within us, some can keep it under control, others cannot, or chose not to care who they hurt.

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Ain't nobody hating on that lost hoodrat.
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Originally posted by liesnalibis liesnalibis wrote:

Ain't nobody hating on that lost hoodrat.

I actually think people are thoughLOL, not the majority but people are. 
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I am a connoisseur of information .....ok im a gossip, not coz i give a fck abt people but coz i have a curious mind.i always need to know and my memory stores random useless sh*t that doesnt help me.

The main thing that annoys me: dont judge me that im a mongering gossip but when you wanna catch some juicy tea you come to me
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