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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Jul 25 2013 at 8:49am
A lot of men (especially my age) have that same mindset. I'm glad he recognized her natural beauty.
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Jul 25 2013 at 8:49am
Originally posted by Merin Merin wrote:

My husband loves me natural. Whenever I say I am going to flat iron my hair he whimpers.
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Jul 25 2013 at 8:57am
I'm glad he was able to see the light. Now could he explain to the rest of these simple minded men who share his old views?
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Jul 25 2013 at 9:03am
Originally posted by blaquefoxx blaquefoxx wrote:

Originally posted by Merin Merin wrote:

My husband loves me natural. Whenever I say I am going to flat iron my hair he whimpers.
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Jul 25 2013 at 9:07am
Its not the natural thing that he wasnt feeling......its that big chop.....men like hair....
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Jul 25 2013 at 9:13am
Just from reading, I don't get the notion of being natural per se but the big chop process. He mentioned no hair and twa Lol. That's how my husband was until I started showing him how idgaf and he saw the action I was getting. Lol. When it got longer he loved it. I could do so much with it. I'm glad he sees his wife true beauty
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Jul 25 2013 at 9:14am
Ok didn't read really just skimmed.
Yes men of all races like longer hair but still glad he saw her beauty in every length.

I prefer longer hair also

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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Jul 25 2013 at 9:26am
I admire this guy for doing some soul searching to see why he did not like the idea of his wife's hair being natural.  I've read on natural sites where a lot of men just give the women a hard time. 
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Jul 25 2013 at 10:42am
He met her with permed hair that hangs, and thats what he was attracted and accustomed to. I can see how it would take some getting used to. The same way im sure going natural took some adjusting for her as well.
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Jul 25 2013 at 10:59am
Originally posted by mizzsandra00 mizzsandra00 wrote:

Its not the natural thing that he wasnt feeling......its that big chop.....men like hair....
 
 
i watched a documentary that talked about how all babies are born with the natural instinct to squeeze when something is placed in their hand.  this instinct is believed to be encoded deep in our dna at birth...an instinct likely left over from the primate ancestors we evolved from.  young primates need to be able to hold on to survive when in route.
 
anyway, i really feel think something similar is going on with men and their overwhelming preference for lots of hair.  the longer the hair the easier for babies to hang onto when an escape is necessary.  the str8 hair crap is another matter, of course.
 
that said, when i did the big chop my bf at the time was not happy at all.  he actually begged me not to whining about how he prefers str8 hair...Ouch
 
years later, he is always complimenting my hair when i wear my big fro...
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