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neverjaded 
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 Posted: Mar 10 2013 at 8:59pm |
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DO NOT TELL HIM. Just kindly end it. Also know that the bad boy in NY is probably going to turn out to be about a whole bunch of bull sh!t, who only brings good dicc to the table, we've all been there. But thats no reason to continue to deceive your current bf. Spare him the hurt feelings and emasculation and just end it on a good note. The grass is rarely greener on the other side... Believe That! |
word, its so true bout ny men. that bad boy and i are no strings attached
thanks for the advice
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neverjaded
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Posted: Mar 10 2013 at 9:13pm |
Thanks for all the feedback, harsh but very true. 
I never cheated before neither have i ever been in a long distance relationship.
I shouldn't have said that him being bad in bed was the reason for cheating because I told him before.
I think its because he moved out without telling me.
All I know is that I'm not ready to be in a relationship with anyone and I don't deserve him.
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loveandpeace1984
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Posted: Mar 10 2013 at 9:16pm |
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Let him know what you did to him so he will know to not mess with your type and he can tighten his game up on some white, spanish, and asian women. Sorry, but you created another bad boy and he will be on point and you gonna be like wtf did I just do.
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Posted: Mar 11 2013 at 11:13am |
loveandpeace...
idk what "your type" is. but he doesnt have a type
nor would he be a bad boy..
but thanks for trying 
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Posted: Mar 11 2013 at 11:26am |
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Bad Boy means he isn't going to be all lovey dovey and moronic to put any faith in a chick. He gonna do what he gonna do and move on. My type isn't a chick who runs for the mills cause she a coward to tell her man that she claims to care about the truth.
Tell him the truth and let him open his eyes.
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Posted: Mar 11 2013 at 12:04pm |
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The relationship is over. You must end it. I won't tell you to tell or him or not because that is your decision to make.
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Posted: Mar 11 2013 at 3:38pm |
bigsexylisa wrote:
Don't tell him what you did--just break it off. The only reason you would want to tell him is to ease your guilty conscience, and you really don't deserve that at this point. If he presses you to find out why its over, then you can tell him that you cheated on him and he deserves better, because you know you're going to end up doing it again (if you aren't happy, why wouldn't you?). If he isn't satisfying you, leave him alone to find someone that is content with him. |
THIS! Geesh get over yourself.  You messed up so now you need to dump him but don't rub it in his face. Just tell him you have met someone else - period no details
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Word, I wouldn't tell him, since your unhappy you need to break it off with him since your not satisfied. There's no need to hurt the mans feeling because he's not able to satisfy you. You will hurt that man n ruin it for the next chick cause he will be all mentally fu**ed especially when it comes to a mans manhood.
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Posted: Mar 16 2013 at 1:12pm |
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You'd be a fool to tell him. Why so he can become vengeful, spiteful and possibly open yourself up to payback?
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Posted: Mar 19 2013 at 11:48am |
Some of these responses that are encouraging the OP to be dishonest and not tell the whole truth = sad
I thought BHMers advocated the right of a person to know if their SO is cheating on them. There have been countless threads made in which the OP witnessed a man cheating on his SO, and the OP wanted to know if she should tell/does the woman had a right to know if her SO is cheating on her. Majority of BHM's responses? "Girl, you better tell her that her man is cheating on her!"
But now, we are saying that a man doesn't have the right to know if his SO has been unfaithful to him. Interesting....
I see that we abide by the honesty policy ONLY when it is convenient for us.
Double-standards.
Not surprised. Carry along.
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