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 Posted: Mar 09 2013 at 7:54am |
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DO NOT TELL HIM. Just kindly end it. Also know that the bad boy in NY is probably going to turn out to be about a whole bunch of bull sh!t, who only brings good dicc to the table, we've all been there. But thats no reason to continue to deceive your current bf. Spare him the hurt feelings and emasculation and just end it on a good note. The grass is rarely greener on the other side... Believe That! |
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Morris Chestnuts
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Men handle the truth differently than women so let him know why u ending it. He will at least be able to look at this as a learning experience and tighten his game up in the bedroom and not being so accommodating with the next chick.
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Posted: Mar 09 2013 at 9:00am |
Be an adult, take responsibility, own up to your mistake, tell him the truth, and end the relationship, so you both can move on.
You don't deserve him (don't mean to sound rude, just being honest)
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Posted: Mar 09 2013 at 1:27pm |
end it, stop trying to get away with cheating. if you don't tell him, then the next time you are in a serious relationship, you will not learn from your mistakes and cheat again. you need to actually feel bad about what you did so maybe you won't do it again. its best to tell the truth for the both of you.
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Posted: Mar 09 2013 at 1:36pm |
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My advice for you: Stay with him and don't tell him... the relationship will fade out on its own..or who knows, things may get better between you and hood boy will be an after thought.
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Advice only a cheater would give. My goodness! That man deserves better then this cheating lying woman [no offense OP =) ].
She's going to realize what she's missing, once the bad boy does the same thing to her and cheats on her.
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Posted: Mar 09 2013 at 3:53pm |
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end it if you're not happy with him why stay
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Posted: Mar 09 2013 at 6:32pm |
Emily Loretta wrote:
khivey wrote:
My advice for you: Stay with him and don't tell him... the relationship will fade out on its own..or who knows, things may get better between you and hood boy will be an after thought.
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Advice only a cheater would give. My goodness! That man deserves better then this cheating lying woman [no offense OP =) ].
She's going to realize what she's missing, once the bad boy does the same thing to her and cheats on her. |
I've never cheated....everyone makes mistakes right? She sounds confused at the moment...and maybe down the line she may figure things out. You'd be surprised how many men cheat, don't tell, realize their mistake and never do it again. It goes to the grave. No one is hurt and life goes on. She didn't come across as saying she just is out there messing with everyone. She met a dude..and one thing led to another. Sh* happens. If it becomes habitual..okay she needs to walk away from her boyfriend. In the meantime...she should figure things out before making any moves.
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I dont think she shouldnt tell him. That important info. I thin kshe should tel him and let him decide if he wasnt to stay with her or not.If she looses him its her own fault. Hopefully she will learn. i just hope this dude has been good also and that he finds someone that shares his same relationship values.
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Posted: Mar 10 2013 at 11:36am |
Spokenword wrote:
Qualified wrote:
DO NOT TELL HIM. Just kindly end it. Also know that the bad boy in NY is probably going to turn out to be about a whole bunch of bull sh!t, who only brings good dicc to the table, we've all been there. But thats no reason to continue to deceive your current bf. Spare him the hurt feelings and emasculation and just end it on a good note. The grass is rarely greener on the other side... Believe That! |
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This right here. Don't listen to these people with their fake halos over their head. Don't tell him you cheated. Just end it. He's gonna ask why and say the relationship isn't working out for you and you feel he deserves better. Tell him in the long run it's whats best for the both of you.
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Posted: Mar 10 2013 at 5:05pm |
Princess_S wrote:
I dont think she shouldnt tell him. That important info. I thin kshe should tel him and let him decide if he wasnt to stay with her or not.If she looses him its her own fault. Hopefully she will learn. i just hope this dude has been good also and that he finds someone that shares his same relationship values. |
This right here. I don't understand the whole walking away thing. I just
don't get it. She effed up, he should get the option to walk or not....
not the other way around. Taking that away from him is sort of
demeaning and doesn't allow him to acknowledge his feelings about it.
Its worst when someone walks away from you. At least give him that. I
think that she needs to conceal the reason WHY she cheated. That's the
part that will hurt him and his ego probably more than the cheating
ESPECIALLY if she never mentioned it before now. More than likely she
will cheat again because she found a "bad boy" and her bf is bad in bed.
The adult thing to do would be to address that before you cheated. Just
because your partner sucks doesn't mean you should cheat on him. That's
when you should have left and not because you cheated. Not cool at all.
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