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Originally posted by ImThatDiva ImThatDiva wrote:

Originally posted by Bunnyahh Bunnyahh wrote:

rofl @ your selective reading & comprehension skillsLOL  woo woo woo, it's ok.  I'm able to disagree & voice my opinion.  No need for namecalling. This angry tirade you threw in my direction is no use.   I am not angry, I was the one ok with the haircut DUH.  My parents babysit also.  My parents can do what they want with my kids when my kids are in their care
Me responding to you equates to me being angry? no it was the slander & namecalling
Ah, I see. In my opinion, your answer was over dramatic and made you look foolish, so I said it. if you don't like what I post simply skip over it.  No need for fighting & harsh words. wwjd?
 That's not name calling bunny,yes it is use your reading comprehension skills.
What, you can't afford adequate child care?yes I can
 Why are you pawning your kids off on your parents? I don't
 I mean, that's really the only reason your parents are babysitting them according to what you previously stated."If yall had adequate childcare and didn't pawn ya kids off on aunty or grandma"[sic].they do go to daycare AND visit family.  I won't trip over family thoTongue
What rolls in your family simply doesn't roll in everyone's family no sh*t, I am VERY much aware that we are all different.
 hence why some here would be mad at the grandparent for taking it upon herself to make that decision. Idk why they are mad.  It is just hypocritical to me that all of a sudden ppl wanna talk about boundaries, rights, permission, etc... and flip flop in another topic
 End of story, the sooner you allow that to sink in, the sooner you'll stop being angry.  
I actually beginning to think that might have been an undercover trolling post.  As I said a long time ago, the go to words that ppl on bhm use when others disagree with them are mad/angry, basic, & troll.
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Originally posted by ImThatDiva ImThatDiva wrote:

Originally posted by Bunnyahh Bunnyahh wrote:

the CHILD wanted it. It was HER decision.  Just like a mom makes a decision to chop up their baby instead of allowing the baby to grow & make that choice for themself.
 
mmm hhmm spare me your tunnel vision pov
If you child wants to have sex and do drugs you're going to let them? Same exact concept different situation.

Do you know what a parent is bunny? A parent is like a proxy. A parent makes the decisions for their kids until they are able to make it for themselves. Children are not capable of making most of the decisions in their lives.If they were, you wouldn't have to raise them.

When I was seven, I wanted to buy a pony and have it sleep in my room. My parents, being the good parents they were, decided against such a thing.



I'm gonna need you to not do this selective reading. Until then, we can not continue.  I have answered  the above with my previous post.  But alas, you are seeing only what you want to
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Originally posted by EPITOME EPITOME wrote:

Originally posted by Bunnyahh Bunnyahh wrote:

Originally posted by EPITOME EPITOME wrote:

how many decisions do you allow your kids to make B?
as many as I see fit that will have them grow into responsible, purposeful, wise adults

good answer.  how does circumcision fall into that?  i can see the hair cutting falling into the three categories you named.  

actually-- i might be less upset if the child cut her hair herself bc she is taking autonomy into her own hands. my point still remains that the child is being taught a bad lesson by grandma acquiescing. and she is learning how to circumvent her parent's authority.

the mother might have had her reasons outside of vanity for grooming her child in a specific manner. just like with clothing or anything else.


If they want the haircut, they can have a haircut.  If I said no, & my mom gave it to them I won't be mad.  If he wants a circumcision he can have it when he can afford it.  If my mom gave him one, I would be mad
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Lmao, bunny you're trolling...Slander and name calling, girl bye.
and this is a forum. It works by people responding to topics and others. If you don't want to be responded to,  Logout Logout [Bunyahh]

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Originally posted by ImThatDiva ImThatDiva wrote:

Originally posted by Bunnyahh Bunnyahh wrote:

Originally posted by EPITOME EPITOME wrote:

how many decisions do you allow your kids to make B?
as many as I see fit that will have them grow into responsible, purposeful, wise adults
Why are you making decisions for your child?It's their life, you shouldn't be deciding anything for them. Oh the hypocrisy.
LOL you tried.  re-read the thread
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Originally posted by ImThatDiva ImThatDiva wrote:

Originally posted by Bunnyahh Bunnyahh wrote:

Originally posted by ImThatDiva ImThatDiva wrote:

Circumcisions are reversible. Check your facts. There's a procedure to do so FYI.
yeah after surgery, much pain, anguish & thousands of dollars later.  sure worth the hasselSleepy
My so's cousin wasn't circumcised. He was mad at his parents for not doing it because now he had to do it as an adult. Most men don't care.
It's a flip of the coin bunny. There are plenty of men who get cut when their older, are you(s) going to blame their parents in that situation to for not being able to detect that their son would want it? Now that they're older they'll remember the pain and anguish that they'll have to go through. God forbid they get a morning erection post-op after they've spent those thousands of dollars.There are more men getting cut for aesthetics that man adding the sleeve.
he didn't HAVE to do it as an adult he WANTED to do it.  Most men do care about their penis.
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we are not talking about any regular hair here, we are talking about black hair. She had no right, a child doesn't know nothing.
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Originally posted by Bunnyahh Bunnyahh wrote:

  If he wants a circumcision he can have it when he can afford it.  If my mom gave him one, I would be mad
Well, you've relinquished your rights when he's in your parents care so they can do that if they want.I hope they do.Wink
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Originally posted by Bunnyahh Bunnyahh wrote:

he didn't HAVE to do it as an adult he WANTED to do it.  Most men do care about their penis.
Yes, and men don't have to get reverse circumcisions, they want it. Most men DO NOT care if they were cut.
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Originally posted by ImThatDiva ImThatDiva wrote:

Lmao, bunny you're trolling...Slander and name calling, girl bye.
and this is a forum. It works by people responding to topics and others. If you don't want to be responded to,  Logout Logout [Bunyahh]
trolling by disagreeing??Sleepy yeah sure. You can respond but not insult.  Would you like if I did the same to you?
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