How would you respond?

Bunnyahh wrote: BeatriceBean wrote: Bunnyahh wrote: well tough sh*t!! If yall had adequate childcare and didn't pawn ya kids off on aunty or grandma, these issues would not arise.  the daycare is payed to treat your child a certain way.  family doesn't have to follow your rules.  if granny wants to shave her head, give whoopings, let her eat candy, run naked in the rain while saying the alphabet backwards, then so be it!!   don't have kids you can't afford to raise or bury   What does this have to do with anything?   Many grandparents ask if their grandchildren can come stay for the weekend, it has nothing to do with daycare  for all we know you relinquish all rights when you CHOOSE to let them visit family.  There are no contracts to sign or rules to follow imo.  If you don't like it, keep them home or have granny come visit you.

mzmee & BB I luv yall both very much but I'll just be saying the same thing I already said.  Idk how ppl can be upset at a haircut, yet be nonchalant at mutilation. Why should the granny respect your rights, wants, wishes as mom when nobody respects the rights, wants, or wishes of the child??  At least the hair will grow back, did not hurt, bleed, or isn't a lifelong irreversible decision.

IA that the grandmother overstepped her boundaries on the whole haircutting thing.  What really sounds crazy is that this has become a facebook drama?  You gotta be kidding me

I'd be mad for a day or two...maybe a week at most.  But after that, there's no sense in holding grudges about it. 

iSMILE13 wrote: Alias_Avi wrote: People overstepping parents decisions about their children (when their welfare isn't in jeopardy) is the most irritating thing! THIS!! I wanted to make a thread about an incident with my fam. It got real ugly....

you can still make the thread.

EPITOME wrote: i never knew that when my nieces or nephews spend time with me, i should disregard how they are being raised and their parents desires.