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BeatriceBean 
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 Posted: Nov 13 2012 at 10:37am |
 Bunnyahh wrote:
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Bunnyahh wrote:
well tough sh*t!! If yall had adequate childcare and didn't pawn ya kids off on aunty or grandma, these issues would not arise. the daycare is payed to treat your child a certain way. family doesn't have to follow your rules. if granny wants to shave her head, give whoopings, let her eat candy, run naked in the rain while saying the alphabet backwards, then so be it!!
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What does this have to do with anything?
Many grandparents ask if their grandchildren can come stay for the weekend, it has nothing to do with daycare for all we know  |
you relinquish all rights when you CHOOSE to let them visit family. There are no contracts to sign or rules to follow imo. If you don't like it, keep them home or have granny come visit you. |
Relinquish all rights? What? No you don't. Since when does trusting that your parents will respect your authority as a parent equate to relinquishing all your rights?
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Posted: Nov 13 2012 at 10:43am |
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little girl got an afro now ?
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No not when str8 it brushes the top of her shoulders now , it was almost hitting the middle of her back before the cut.
Also she wasn't using her mom as a sitter it was just a weekend visit to spend time with her gma...lol
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Posted: Nov 13 2012 at 10:46am |
mzmee & BB I luv yall both very much but I'll just be saying the same thing I already said. Idk how ppl can be upset at a haircut, yet be nonchalant at mutilation. Why should the granny respect your rights, wants, wishes as mom when nobody respects the rights, wants, or wishes of the child?? At least the hair will grow back, did not hurt, bleed, or isn't a lifelong irreversible decision.
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Posted: Nov 13 2012 at 10:46am |
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Hair cutting isn't that big of a deal.
The kid probably hated that the mom spent so much time, and fussed over her hair so much.
And the grandma saw how sad the kid was, and cut it.
I can see being angry for a little. But after like 2 weeks, itd be fine.
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Posted: Nov 13 2012 at 12:28pm |
IA that the grandmother overstepped her boundaries on the whole haircutting thing. What really sounds crazy is that this has become a facebook drama? You gotta be kidding me
I'd be mad for a day or two...maybe a week at most. But after that, there's no sense in holding grudges about it.
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Posted: Nov 13 2012 at 1:17pm |
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That's really messed up especially if the mother does invest time in doing her daughter's hair. 8 inches is too much. I would be so angry, but my mom knows how I am about hair to not even dare cut it. If it is the gma on the father's side, then she would have to be placed on supervised visits of my child until the child is old enough to know what is going on smh.
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Posted: Nov 13 2012 at 1:29pm |
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i never knew that when my nieces or nephews spend time with me, i should disregard how they are being raised and their parents desires.
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Posted: Nov 13 2012 at 1:40pm |
EPITOME wrote:
i never knew that when my nieces or nephews spend time with me, i should disregard how they are being raised and their parents desires. |
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Posted: Nov 13 2012 at 2:25pm |
Tbaby wrote:
IA that the grandmother overstepped her boundaries on the whole haircutting thing. What really sounds crazy is that this has become a facebook drama? You gotta be kidding me
I'd be mad for a day or two...maybe a week at most. But after that, there's no sense in holding grudges about it.
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lol yeah it started with a stat that said "Omg my mom cut _____ hair like really wtf" then it just went from there...calmed down then when she found out how much she went on a rant again about being disrespected and her mom jumped in then other sibs when and gave their pov then like on here folks showed up and was like *watching*
Im waiting for her to post pics... because the girl hair was beautiful....she was just a tomboy...I sorta kinda think that was one of the few ways her mom felt made her "girly" if yanno what i mean.
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