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Originally posted by Alias_Avi Alias_Avi wrote:

People overstepping parents decisions about their children (when their welfare isn't in jeopardy) is the most irritating thing!


THIS!! I wanted to make a thread about an incident with my fam. It got real ugly....
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Originally posted by EPITOME EPITOME wrote:

Originally posted by ImThatDiva ImThatDiva wrote:

and it's not about the hair, it's about her making a decision that wasn't hers to make

this. grandparents have to know their boundaries as well. while i am sure as a grandma she just wanted to make her grandbaby happy...she was infringing on her daughters authority and is showing the grandchild that you can run to grandma when you do not get what you want.
ALL OF THIS
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well tough sh*t!! If yall had adequate childcare and didn't pawn ya kids off on aunty or grandma, these issues would not arise.  the daycare is payed to treat your child a certain way.  family doesn't have to follow your rules.  if granny wants to shave her head, give whoopings, let her eat candy, run naked in the rain while saying the alphabet backwards, then so be it!!
 
don't have kids you can't afford to raise or bury
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Originally posted by Bunnyahh Bunnyahh wrote:

well tough sh*t!! If yall had adequate childcare and didn't pawn ya kids off on aunty or grandma, these issues would not arise.  the daycare is payed to treat your child a certain way.  family doesn't have to follow your rules.  if granny wants to shave her head, give whoopings, let her eat candy, run naked in the rain while saying the alphabet backwards, then so be it!!
 
don't have kids you can't afford to raise or bury
 
What does this have to do with anything?
 
Many grandparents ask if their grandchildren can come stay for the weekend, it has nothing to do with daycare  for all we know Confused
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Originally posted by Bunnyahh Bunnyahh wrote:

well tough sh*t!! If yall had adequate childcare and didn't pawn ya kids off on aunty or grandma, these issues would not arise.  the daycare is payed to treat your child a certain way.  family doesn't have to follow your rules.  if granny wants to shave her head, give whoopings, let her eat candy, run naked in the rain while saying the alphabet backwards, then so be it!!
 

don't have kids you can't afford to raise or bury
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Don't understand how the daycare aspect comes into play .

Grand kids visit their grandparents all the time.
Doesn't mean the parents are irresponsible wtf Bunny?
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Originally posted by BeatriceBean BeatriceBean wrote:

Originally posted by Bunnyahh Bunnyahh wrote:

well tough sh*t!! If yall had adequate childcare and didn't pawn ya kids off on aunty or grandma, these issues would not arise.  the daycare is payed to treat your child a certain way.  family doesn't have to follow your rules.  if granny wants to shave her head, give whoopings, let her eat candy, run naked in the rain while saying the alphabet backwards, then so be it!!
 
don't have kids you can't afford to raise or bury
 
What does this have to do with anything?
 
Many grandparents ask if their grandchildren can come stay for the weekend, it has nothing to do with daycare  for all we know Confused
you relinquish all rights when you CHOOSE to let them visit family.  There are no contracts to sign or rules to follow imo.  If you don't like it, keep them home or have granny come visit you.
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Originally posted by iSMILE13 iSMILE13 wrote:

Originally posted by Bunnyahh Bunnyahh wrote:

well tough sh*t!! If yall had adequate childcare and didn't pawn ya kids off on aunty or grandma, these issues would not arise.  the daycare is payed to treat your child a certain way.  family doesn't have to follow your rules.  if granny wants to shave her head, give whoopings, let her eat candy, run naked in the rain while saying the alphabet backwards, then so be it!!
 

don't have kids you can't afford to raise or bury
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tell me why ur really mad ismile, what did they do to you that made you wanna make a thread?
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Originally posted by jonesable jonesable wrote:

Don't understand how the daycare aspect comes into play .

Grand kids visit their grandparents all the time.
Doesn't mean the parents are irresponsible wtf Bunny?
never said anything about irresponsible mi' ladyEmbarrassed
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Originally posted by Bunnyahh Bunnyahh wrote:

well tough sh*t!! If yall had adequate childcare and didn't pawn ya kids off on aunty or grandma, these issues would not arise.  the daycare is payed to treat your child a certain way.  family doesn't have to follow your rules.  if granny wants to shave her head, give whoopings, let her eat candy, run naked in the rain while saying the alphabet backwards, then so be it!!
 
don't have kids you can't afford to raise or bury
 
To the underlined: You lost me...completely
To the bolded: When it comes to children, yes they do. My children not theirs
To the italicized: If granny wanna do that, she need to have her more of her own damn kids. LOL


Edited by mzmee - Nov 13 2012 at 10:37am
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