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    Posted: Nov 12 2012 at 11:04pm
Hello ladies...

Theres some drama going down with a segment of my fam on FB and Im looking for input on how you would handle the situation.

Dets in short:

Donna drops her daughter off at her grandmothers (ur mother) house for the weekend.
Before you pick her up today ur mother tells u she cut her hair.
ur daughters hair is like this if not a lil longer and probably around the same age as girl in the pic

Your daughter hates her hair and hates when u do it...you love it and keep it up very well.
When she goes to her grandmothers house she tells you mom she hates it
Your mother cuts off 8inches.
Your daughter isnt phased by it and seems happy.

Donna stance:  shes pissed off and basically says "she shouldnt have cut her hair without even telling me first "
The grandmother stance: Her daughter is happy and its just hair... "ur daughters hair not urs... its not that serious"..

GMom was a hairdresser back in the day and says she knew what she was doing ..Donna feels its looks a mess and would most likely result in more hair being cut to fix it.


How would yall respond to this?



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well the reactions on a hair board will be a lil different
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i'd be angry for a little. 
but... thats my mommy. 
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I would have a problem with ANYBODY doing anything to my child without my permission... even my mother

But the mother of the lil girl should've listened to her daughter
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Glosses this is a hair board we love and need every inch!!!!
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I would let her (my mom) know I was not happy with her decision and then set my expectations for how to handle MY daughter in the future....  and then I'd charge it to the game.

I'm one of those "its just hair" types... and if my daughter was happy then why would I stay mad at mom?
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i would have said "exactly, MY daughters hair. NOT your daughter. I make the decisions for her, not you.Situations such as this require you to acquire my permission before you do anything." and I'd probably tell her that if the next time a situation like this were to arise and she did this again, I'd refrain from bringing her over.


If my mother was alive, she wouldn't do anything like that though...
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LOL...lol I know.... she is heated tho...lol ...outside of the little girls dad our male cousins dont see the big deal. I think whats making her the most upset is her mom doesnt feel she did anything wrong
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and it's not about the hair, it's about her making a decision that wasn't hers to make
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Originally posted by ImThatDiva ImThatDiva wrote:

and it's not about the hair, it's about her making a decision that wasn't hers to make

this. grandparents have to know their boundaries as well. while i am sure as a grandma she just wanted to make her grandbaby happy...she was infringing on her daughters authority and is showing the grandchild that you can run to grandma when you do not get what you want.
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