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Originally posted by Bunnyahh Bunnyahh wrote:

well tough sh*t!! If yall had adequate childcare and didn't pawn ya kids off on aunty or grandma, these issues would not arise.  the daycare is payed to treat your child a certain way.  family doesn't have to follow your rules.  if granny wants to shave her head, give whoopings, let her eat candy, run naked in the rain while saying the alphabet backwards, then so be it!!
 
don't have kids you can't afford to raise or bury
Your doing the absolute most and look like a fool. Why are nyou so angry about how people would feel if they were in a similar situation Nothing in this here thread said you were wrong if you didn't feel that way. More people in here feel differently that you do so tough titties...

I don't know about your family, frankly i don't care, but in MY family, the grandparents babysit. When my sisters and I were young, my grandmothers were super offended when my parents sent my older sisters to daycare. Daycare, in my family, is only an option if the grandparents or other family can't watch the kids. My sister's mother-in-law and my father tell her all the time that they'll rotate days to babysit as it will be their pleasure to do so.

Moral of the story: People have different opinions. No use in popping blood vessels because people don't agree.

eta: Letting your parents babysit doesn't mean you are relinquish your rights to them. What kind of ass-backwards logic is that? Do you even know what it means to relinquish your parental rights?
Babysitting is watching someone's child for a period of time.
I mean damn, with your mode of thinking here, grandma and grandpa could bring little Lucus to get a tattoo and it's aok because 'you've relinquished your rights' because you asked them to babysit. FOHSleepy


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and no bunny, a PARENT choosing to circumcise THEIR son is different than someone who is NOT the child's parent or primary guardian deciding to do so.
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I would be pissed.
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Originally posted by Bunnyahh Bunnyahh wrote:

well tough sh*t!! If yall had adequate childcare and didn't pawn ya kids off on aunty or grandma, these issues would not arise.  the daycare is payed to treat your child a certain way.  family doesn't have to follow your rules.  if granny wants to shave her head, give whoopings, let her eat candy, run naked in the rain while saying the alphabet backwards, then so be it!!
 
don't have kids you can't afford to raise or bury
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Bit dramatic..


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Originally posted by Bunnyahh Bunnyahh wrote:

mzmee & BB I luv yall both very much but I'll just be saying the same thing I already said.  Idk how ppl can be upset at a haircut, yet be nonchalant at mutilation. Why should the granny respect your rights, wants, wishes as mom when nobody respects the rights, wants, or wishes of the child??  At least the hair will grow back, did not hurt, bleed, or isn't a lifelong irreversible decision.

Originally posted by ImThatDiva ImThatDiva wrote:

and it's not about the hair, it's about her making a decision that wasn't hers to make
  If the grandmother wants to make the decisions for the baby, then she needs to lay down and and make another kid or she needs to adopt. GRANDparent=/=PARENT
The grandmother made a decision for a child that is not hers. What the parents decide to do with THEIR child is their choice.That's really all that needs to be comprehended here. Our going hard in the paint for two unrelated situations.
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Originally posted by ImThatDiva ImThatDiva wrote:

Originally posted by Bunnyahh Bunnyahh wrote:

well tough sh*t!! If yall had adequate childcare and didn't pawn ya kids off on aunty or grandma, these issues would not arise.  the daycare is payed to treat your child a certain way.  family doesn't have to follow your rules.  if granny wants to shave her head, give whoopings, let her eat candy, run naked in the rain while saying the alphabet backwards, then so be it!!
 
don't have kids you can't afford to raise or bury
Your doing the absolute most and look like a fool. Why are nyou so angry about how people would feel if they were in a similar situation Nothing in this here thread said you were wrong if you didn't feel that way. More people in here feel differently that you do so tough titties...

I don't know about your family, frankly i don't care, but in MY family, the grandparents babysit. When my sisters and I were young, my grandmothers were super offended when my parents sent my older sisters to daycare. Daycare, in my family, is only an option if the grandparents or other family can't watch the kids. My sister's mother-in-law and my father tell her all the time that they'll rotate days to babysit as it will be their pleasure to do so.

Moral of the story: People have different opinions. No use in popping blood vessels because people don't agree.

rofl @ your selective reading & comprehension skillsLOL  woo woo woo, it's ok.  I'm able to disagree & voice my opinion.  No need for namecalling. This angry tirade you threw in my direction is no use.   I am not angry, I was the one ok with the haircut DUH.  My parents babysit also.  My parents can do what they want with my kids when my kids are in their care
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Circumcisions are reversible. Check your facts. There's a procedure to do so FYI.
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Originally posted by ImThatDiva ImThatDiva wrote:

Originally posted by Bunnyahh Bunnyahh wrote:

mzmee & BB I luv yall both very much but I'll just be saying the same thing I already said.  Idk how ppl can be upset at a haircut, yet be nonchalant at mutilation. Why should the granny respect your rights, wants, wishes as mom when nobody respects the rights, wants, or wishes of the child??  At least the hair will grow back, did not hurt, bleed, or isn't a lifelong irreversible decision.

Originally posted by ImThatDiva ImThatDiva wrote:

and it's not about the hair, it's about her making a decision that wasn't hers to make
  If the grandmother wants to make the decisions for the baby, then she needs to lay down and and make another kid or she needs to adopt. GRANDparent=/=PARENT
The grandmother made a decision for a child that is not hers. What the parents decide to do with THEIR child is their choice.That's really all that needs to be comprehended here. Our going hard in the paint for two unrelated situations.
the CHILD wanted it. It was HER decision.  Just like a mom makes a decision to chop up their baby instead of allowing the baby to grow & make that choice for themself.
 
mmm hhmm spare me your tunnel vision pov
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What? I'd be mad! But then again children don't need all that hair, it gets in the way especially if she's a tomboy.
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Originally posted by ImThatDiva ImThatDiva wrote:

Circumcisions are reversible. Check your facts. There's a procedure to do so FYI.
yeah after surgery, much pain, anguish & thousands of dollars later.  sure worth the hasselSleepy
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