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Originally posted by Midna Midna wrote:

I would be so offended and I would bring it up with him later when we're alone.

Any rude terms, I do not want to be referred as.
 
I would bring it up right then and there. He did this in front of others I guess to make himself look good, so right then and their, in front of the same audience, I would let him have it. Put that ego right where he shot it up from. Don't make yourself look good my putting me down. NOPE!
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Well....What kind of tone was it? Was it said with affection or anger? LOL
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Originally posted by BBpants BBpants wrote:

Well....What kind of tone was it? Was it said with affection or anger? LOL

He was telling me something about school and how he got into it with his peoples and he left his clothes so "I tole you these ain't my clothes, these my hoe clothes, man!"  with all the I'm-such-a-thug, high stepping, arm swinging histrionics. The woman he's messing with is literally twice his age as well. Like I said, ghetto. Sleepy But it was kinda my fault because I kept clowning him, though. Poor thing.
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Originally posted by MizzAmirah MizzAmirah wrote:

Originally posted by Midna Midna wrote:

I would be so offended and I would bring it up with him later when we're alone.

Any rude terms, I do not want to be referred as.
 
I would bring it up right then and there. He did this in front of others I guess to make himself look good, so right then and their, in front of the same audience, I would let him have it. Put that ego right where he shot it up from. Don't make yourself look good my putting me down. NOPE!

I would have probably played it off like I didn't hear it then went off on him later or been like, "What you said?" jokingly but try to act like it's not a big deal and that's just how we talk. I wouldn't want to give anyone a story to tell.
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Originally posted by starflower7 starflower7 wrote:

Originally posted by MizzAmirah MizzAmirah wrote:

Originally posted by Midna Midna wrote:

I would be so offended and I would bring it up with him later when we're alone.

Any rude terms, I do not want to be referred as.
 
I would bring it up right then and there. He did this in front of others I guess to make himself look good, so right then and their, in front of the same audience, I would let him have it. Put that ego right where he shot it up from. Don't make yourself look good my putting me down. NOPE!

I would have probably played it off like I didn't hear it then went off on him later or been like, "What you said?" jokingly but try to act like it's not a big deal and that's just how we talk. I wouldn't want to give anyone a story to tell.

I guess that's another way to handle it. It will depend on what time of the month it is for me tho.LOL
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he doesn't use the word...
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Originally posted by ImThatDiva ImThatDiva wrote:

he doesn't use the word...

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i dont know any better and i wasnt raised right, can i refer to my lady as my b!tch in any context when speaking to my friends ? like aye yo, thats my bish ? not that i would ever do such a thing, i aint trying to get cut out here 3 times.
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Originally posted by bunzaveli bunzaveli wrote:

i dont know any better and i wasnt raised right, can i refer to my lady as my b!tch in any context when speaking to my friends ? like aye yo, thats my bish ? not that i would ever do such a thing, i aint trying to get cut out here 3 times.

Just look over your shoulder and make sure she's nowhere around. 
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Originally posted by starflower7 starflower7 wrote:

you as his hoe?

(No, this didn't happen to me).

What would you do? Basically I was making fun of this guy's pink mismatched socks and he was telling me some story about how he lost all his clothes or something and those were his hoe's clothes. He didn't know his s/o had walked up behind him. He tried to play it off. I know she heard it too but she tried to play it off like she didn't hear it or it wasn't a big deal. 

Would you confront him or what?


I would be hurt and embarrassed and I would never be able to sleep with him again.
Husband has never called me out of my name so that would wound my soul.

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