I never had BF **cough** I could never get out of the flirtationship. Next time I will
8th grade: My guy friend saw me from afar and was like "DAMN! Who is that?" His friend Tyrone was like "WTF, that's Jess" My friend said "Damn, she's hot!" I was wearing these tight shorts...they were long though, but since I'm tall I had extra leg showage. He asked me out and called me. He asked me how long would he have to wait to have sex. I said over a year. The next day my friend called me and said he got a new gf. I wasn't surprised or sad.
Sophomore year: A new guy transferred to my school. I didn't find him attractive initially. Then I did...so I found him on MySpace and added him. I gave him my AIM and we would talk like everyday for HOURS on AIM. SMDH. This went on for 5 months. I gave him a carnation on Valentine's Day. He brought this girl named Christine to the classroom the day before. He changed his relationship status to "In A Relationship". I was thrown. Now that I am older, I am not surprised. I was his backup girl. LOL
He didn't get me a carnation and gave his carnation to Christine. I was jilted. He wanted to stay friends, but I cut him off and burned the bridge. He's not with Christine anymore.
Sophomore Year of College:
I liked a guy, but I was too forward. He wasn't into me. I was delusional and thought he was just shy. He wasn't and he got with a girl he actually liked.
Junior Year of College:
This guy would talk to me all the time before class. I thought he was just being nice. While the semester is winding up, he asks me to be a part of his study group. Well the day comes and the study group is just us. We talked, but there wasn't any chemistry. He said we should hangout over the summer. I texted him the day school ended and he responded late and didn't reply to my other text. I didn't hear from him in like 4 days. So I texted him again -____- and he asked me out the same day...but I just took out my weave so I said I couldn't.
Didn't hear from him in a week (You would think that I would learn the signs) I asked him how was he and he asked me out to the beach. The day we were suppose to go to the beach, he said he got called into work and rescheduled for the weekend. I asked him which day and he didn't respond.
He texted me later in the week and asked me hows my summer going. I told him if this beach thing doesn't happen, it's okay. He gave a response that didn't make sense and he never set a date. I never went to the beach and I stopped texting him. I deleted his number. >.<
Again I was the backup girl. This shyt is getting real old.
To be continued...in September