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also if he genuinely wants to b with her n not rush into sex, her fondling may just turn him off then he'll change his mind about wanting to b with her
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Originally posted by tata08 tata08 wrote:

Originally posted by vintagenarcissa vintagenarcissa wrote:

Cosign with bebe.
If you initiate most of your contact.
If you only see or hear from him late at night.
If he's drunk when he makes contact.
If he tells you that making drunk calls or visits isn't something he usually does, he's lying.
If he tries to initiate sex, making out, heavy petting within the first few weeks, especially within the first 1-2 weeks.
If he asks you to "chill at his place" FUKING RUN!
If he tells you he's not interested in a relationship or doesn't believe in relationships.
If he makes sexual comments: telling you he's a freak, asking if you're a freak etc, making comments about his anatomy or his performance in bed when it has nothing to do with your conversation.
Asking for nude photos or sending dude photos of himself. (I just met you, why in lord's name do I need to know what your penis looks like?)
If he makes unsavory comments about women in his past. (trust, he'll be making those same comments about you).

The thing is, common sense tells you that all these things are indicators that he's not interested in anything serious. But most women take the butterflies that they get when dealing with an unattainable man and turn them into excuse as to why he does want to be with them in order to hold on. If you have serious butterflies and are making excuses for his behavior, that's the time to open your eyes and see that there is no idealized romantic reasoning behind them.
 
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Originally posted by KoolWaves KoolWaves wrote:

Play with him.  If he get hard... he probably wants sex
If he shrugs you off and trys his best to resist... he probably doesn't want sex.
 
Or if you're not into fondling, just dance wit him.  If he pokes you, then  you know what's up.
 
It aint rocket science.


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Originally posted by Dehinds Dehinds wrote:

Originally posted by tata08 tata08 wrote:

Originally posted by vintagenarcissa vintagenarcissa wrote:

Cosign with bebe.
If you initiate most of your contact.
If you only see or hear from him late at night.
If he's drunk when he makes contact.
If he tells you that making drunk calls or visits isn't something he usually does, he's lying.
If he tries to initiate sex, making out, heavy petting within the first few weeks, especially within the first 1-2 weeks.
If he asks you to "chill at his place" FUKING RUN!
If he tells you he's not interested in a relationship or doesn't believe in relationships.
If he makes sexual comments: telling you he's a freak, asking if you're a freak etc, making comments about his anatomy or his performance in bed when it has nothing to do with your conversation.
Asking for nude photos or sending dude photos of himself. (I just met you, why in lord's name do I need to know what your penis looks like?)
If he makes unsavory comments about women in his past. (trust, he'll be making those same comments about you).

The thing is, common sense tells you that all these things are indicators that he's not interested in anything serious. But most women take the butterflies that they get when dealing with an unattainable man and turn them into excuse as to why he does want to be with them in order to hold on. If you have serious butterflies and are making excuses for his behavior, that's the time to open your eyes and see that there is no idealized romantic reasoning behind them.
 
LOL!!! I love the way you put the bolded.....you pretty much covered it all!!ClapClapClapClapClapClap

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WTF is wrong with flirting or dressing sexy?! I hate when guys make that excuse to be disrespectful or ask for sex. I can act & dress any way I want. Learn to control yourself. I don't care if I'm doing butt naked cartwheels on main street.... Calm your sperm!
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^ROFL!
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what if you find a guy that is not sexually attacted to you, but liked you because you were cool? would that really be better?
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There's a difference between being sexually actracted to someone and just wanting sex.
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i guess the consensus around here is a dude wanting only sex is a no-no.

 
i'm still curious to how someone would feel if a dude did not want sex from her period
 
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A dude should not just want sex from a women unless she feels the same way. Men are so f**king rude about though. If you just want sex just be honest. I don't need to hear I love you and all that bullsh*t! However if I say I don't want to have sex don't ask me again!
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