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    Posted: Mar 30 2010 at 5:43pm
what are the telltale signs . about ten years ago someone told me that that all men are only thinking about and want sex unless he's a saved or born again and i think that person is right

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-wont kiss you
-dont ask you out on real dates
-really only deal with u when its time to have sex
 
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First of all, finding out whether or not he is just out for sex is the reason I suggested in your other thread not to get too intimate with men.  I use the word intimate very loosely. 
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Originally posted by Sourpatch Kid Sourpatch Kid wrote:

Originally posted by mangachan mangachan wrote:

First of all, finding out whether or not he is just out for sex is the reason I suggested in your other thread not to get too intimate with men.  I use the word intimate very loosely. 
True, it gives off mixed signals!
 
yeah..you can't slob ole boy down on the first date..and then wanna apply the 3 month rule.
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Originally posted by bebe88 bebe88 wrote:

-wont kiss you
-dont ask you out on real dates
-really only deal with u when its time to have sex
 
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Sounds like the dead on signs to me.
 
to add:
They only hit you up after 10pm.
They make it a point to only come to your house yall cant meet in a public place
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We just had a thread on this upstairs in ttt called he's just not that into you LOL
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Originally posted by vintagenarcissa vintagenarcissa wrote:

Cosign with bebe.
If you initiate most of your contact.
If you only see or hear from him late at night.
If he's drunk when he makes contact.
If he tells you that making drunk calls or visits isn't something he usually does, he's lying.
If he tries to initiate sex, making out, heavy petting within the first few weeks, especially within the first 1-2 weeks.
If he asks you to "chill at his place" FUKING RUN!
If he tells you he's not interested in a relationship or doesn't believe in relationships.
If he makes sexual comments: telling you he's a freak, asking if you're a freak etc, making comments about his anatomy or his performance in bed when it has nothing to do with your conversation.
Asking for nude photos or sending dude photos of himself. (I just met you, why in lord's name do I need to know what your penis looks like?)
If he makes unsavory comments about women in his past. (trust, he'll be making those same comments about you).

The thing is, common sense tells you that all these things are indicators that he's not interested in anything serious. But most women take the butterflies that they get when dealing with an unattainable man and turn them into excuse as to why he does want to be with them in order to hold on. If you have serious butterflies and are making excuses for his behavior, that's the time to open your eyes and see that there is no idealized romantic reasoning behind them.
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Originally posted by vintagenarcissa vintagenarcissa wrote:


Cosign with bebe. If you initiate most of your contact.If you only see or hear from him late at night.If he's drunk when he makes contact.If he tells you that making drunk calls or visits isn't something he usually does, he's lying.If he tries to initiate sex, making out, heavy petting within the first few weeks, especially within the first 1-2 weeks.If he asks you to "chill at his place" FUKING RUN! If he tells you he's not interested in a relationship or doesn't believe in relationships. If he makes sexual comments: telling you he's a freak, asking if you're a freak etc, making comments about his anatomy or his performance in bed when it has nothing to do with your conversation.Asking for nude photos or sending dude photos of himself. (I just met you, why in lord's name do I need to know what your penis looks like?)If he makes unsavory comments about women in his past. (trust, he'll be making those same comments about you).The thing is, common sense tells you that all these things are indicators that he's not interested in anything serious. But most women take the butterflies that they get when dealing with an unattainable man and turn them into excuse as to why he does want to be with them in order to hold on. If you have serious butterflies and are making excuses for his behavior, that's the time to open your eyes and see that there is no idealized romantic reasoning behind them.


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Originally posted by vintagenarcissa vintagenarcissa wrote:

Cosign with bebe.
If you initiate most of your contact.
If you only see or hear from him late at night.
If he's drunk when he makes contact.
If he tells you that making drunk calls or visits isn't something he usually does, he's lying.
If he tries to initiate sex, making out, heavy petting within the first few weeks, especially within the first 1-2 weeks.
If he asks you to "chill at his place" FUKING RUN!
If he tells you he's not interested in a relationship or doesn't believe in relationships.
If he makes sexual comments: telling you he's a freak, asking if you're a freak etc, making comments about his anatomy or his performance in bed when it has nothing to do with your conversation.
Asking for nude photos or sending dude photos of himself. (I just met you, why in lord's name do I need to know what your penis looks like?)
If he makes unsavory comments about women in his past. (trust, he'll be making those same comments about you).

The thing is, common sense tells you that all these things are indicators that he's not interested in anything serious. But most women take the butterflies that they get when dealing with an unattainable man and turn them into excuse as to why he does want to be with them in order to hold on. If you have serious butterflies and are making excuses for his behavior, that's the time to open your eyes and see that there is no idealized romantic reasoning behind them.
 
LOL!!! I love the way you put the bolded.....you pretty much covered it all!!ClapClapClapClapClapClap
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I agree with whoever said to use comment sense and don't make excuses for him. It isn't that hard to figure people out (it shouldn't be anyway). it doesn't take him practically raping you, it doesn't take you living together, it doesn't take 4 years and 3 kids. People tell on themselves with their actions and behavior. Just let him talk and when he tells you, you got your answer.
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