I feel you... flyaways are so annoying!
My secret weapon:
http://www.drugstore.com/renpure-organics-argan-oil-deep-penetrating-oil-treatment/qxp375049
This stuff isn't greasy.
It's not as sticky as some silicone products.
It takes care of the flyaways and gives the hair a dazzling shine.
It's a great product because it ABSORBS into the hair and makes it less "crunchy".
The moisturizing nature of this stuff makes hair behave without making it look unnatural.
I bought it on the sales rack of my local drug store a while ago and I was SHOCKED by how effective it was.
Pro-Tip! Less is more with this stuff... I'm still on my first bottle (8 months later) and I'll have to buy some more soon.
I rub a quarter sized drop between my hands to warm it up, apply it to my ends and rub what's left on my hands over the top of my hair to tame my part. I brush my hair through with a boar-bristle-type bush for a minute and I am DONE!
The good news is that this stuff does not build up in the hair. It absorbs in and keeps things smooth and soft. The next day I repeat the process. It smells nice too. It sort of smells like clean air and baby powder.
The directions say that you should apply it to damp hair. I guess I don't listen! LOL. I use it on dry hair, but since you are using a damp comb to tame your flyaways, you can use it after you dampen your hair or try it "straight up" like I do. It's a bit more forceful without any water involved... but since dry-hair application makes it more concentrated, consider starting off with a dime-sized dollop or a nickel-sized drop.
Just keep in mind, it has oil in it so make sure you keep it way from any areas where there could be direct contact with tape or adhesive.
It's not too pricey and it is worth a try.
Edited by VivaVaVoom - Mar 11 2013 at 12:09pm