| smaison wrote:|
say you went on 3 dates with a person and you realize that you do not like them. do you:
a) call them up and tell them you don't want to see them anymore or
b) do you just stop contacting them, answering phone calls, text, etc.
is there a c?
I've done this a lot and the one thing I've learned is that when you tell them you are not suited for each other blah, blah, blah in a noce way .. you can never get them to go away. They don't take you seriously - they think you are just teasing them - sometimes they get mad at you and whatnot ... then I think WHY did I saw anything at all.
But when you stop returning phone calls,texts etc... they get the message and go away. Geesh you don't owe these guys (that you don't even want) anything. They'll get over it.
So to me ... it depends on how serious you are about getting him to go away and not draaaag it all out with false hope for him.
Edited by Printer_Ink - Mar 15 2014 at 11:27am