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how would you feel if you were feeling someone?

how would you wanna be handled?

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Originally posted by PurplePhase PurplePhase wrote:

this isn't a hypothetical?


somewhat. 
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^^I thanked it lol
(do as I say, not as I do)

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Originally posted by PurplePhase PurplePhase wrote:

sm, don't listen to me. I was married by the 3rd date.

but rather than notify others, I just changed all my #s lol. They probably think I died or something.


lol...i think i remember you saying that before...too much of a hassle. 
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it depends though. If I have to still sit across from them at alumni meetings, then I don't just do 'b' lol


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Originally posted by smaison smaison wrote:

Originally posted by PurplePhase PurplePhase wrote:

sm, don't listen to me. I was married by the 3rd date.

but rather than notify others, I just changed all my #s lol. They probably think I died or something.


lol...i think i remember you saying that before...too much of a hassle. 


yeah it is now. Back in the old(en) days it wasn't that bad. And I was new to area so only had # for few months anyway.

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Originally posted by afrokock afrokock wrote:

how would you feel if you were feeling someone?

how would you wanna be handled?



yeah, i guess. 

but err one time i was hanging out with this dude for about a month and i called him to tell him that i was no longer interested and that we should stop seeing each other and he begged for me to give him another chance. it was awkward so i said okOuch. torture afterwards. i eventually stopped answering his calls and text. i did end up running into him at an event a couple weeks later and he was there and came up to me...it was awkward. then his friend started texting me and asking me if i was going to come to other events. wth? 
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I tried A first but usually had to resort to B.

I've been b'd before  It's not all that devastating when it's that new.
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Post Options Post Options   Thanks (1) Thanks(1)   Quote afrokock Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: Mar 10 2014 at 3:47pm
nah just be polite and stick to your guns

most guys will gentlemanly bow out

im sure the type of guys you deal with would.

was it just a lack of spark?

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do what the playas do

 
get a 7-eleven burner phone for people you're not serious about, and when you get serious, tell them you got a new number and give them your real number
 
if you ever want to dismiss someone, just stop answering their calls. if you see them out in person, just say you lost all the contacts on that phone...but don't give them your new number
 
only if its that serious though
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