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Originally posted by ThatGurlD ThatGurlD wrote:


Originally posted by ThoughtCouture ThoughtCouture wrote:

Originally posted by afrokock afrokock wrote:

i think people think you just have to sit there and look pretty

doesnt always work like that..



never had a problem in 25+ years of doing it. once they come over...of course, my enchanting personality hooks them. but they HAVE to make it over.

i am sure there are men who have decided not to make the first move either because they don't feel like they should have to or they are not interested off first glance/observance (or unavailable). in either case, that works just fine for me because we probably wouldn't be compatible anyway...so meh.


My husband's friends told him I was stuck up.  He had wanted to talk to me for a while but they told him I would shoot him down.  I honestly never noticed him before.  That one night however, I did.  And I honestly believe we wouldn't be together had I not pulled him out there.  The rest was history.  It's not that we weren't compatible, but no one wants to be rejected.  

Women do the same thing just differently.  I don't go into stores where I can't afford the merchandise.  No matter how much I like their stuff.  We don't apply for jobs we truly feel we don't have a shot at.  Sometimes it hurts less not to try than to try and find out you didn't make the cut.


i guess i meant i prefer alpha men. i would never grab a man off/on the dance floor ever. and i would be perfectly ok with he and i never getting together if thats what it would take for us to connect.

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Originally posted by EPITOME EPITOME wrote:

if you're already talking to the person then dont play games

is this the man your cousins told you not to date and you got mad?


dude from jamaica????
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Originally posted by EPITOME EPITOME wrote:

if you're already talking to the person then dont play games

is this the man your cousins told you not to date and you got mad?

E your memory slaughters me LOL
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Originally posted by ThoughtCouture ThoughtCouture wrote:

Originally posted by afrokock afrokock wrote:

i think people think you just have to sit there and look pretty

doesnt always work like that..



never had a problem in 25+ years of doing it. once they come over...of course, my enchanting personality hooks them. but they HAVE to make it over.

i am sure there are men who have decided not to make the first move either because they don't feel like they should have to or they are not interested off first glance/observance (or unavailable). in either case, that works just fine for me because we probably wouldn't be compatible anyway...so meh.
why you so defensive?

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stand or sit near them
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Originally posted by afrokock afrokock wrote:

i think people think you just have to sit there and look pretty

doesnt always work like that..



this has usually worked for me
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Originally posted by afrokock afrokock wrote:

why you so defensive?



lol defensive????? huh??? no sir.

Edited by ThoughtCouture - Nov 04 2012 at 10:00am
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Leave it alone OP. You'll thank me later
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Originally posted by sbrownie84 sbrownie84 wrote:

someone u are already talking to 

then i second twerking!!
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Post Options Post Options   Thanks (0) Thanks(0)   Quote ThatGurlD Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: Nov 04 2012 at 10:11am
Originally posted by Jess Jess wrote:

Leave it alone OP. You'll thank me later

This.  If y'all are already talking, there's mot much more you can do imo 
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