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Originally posted by ModelessDiva ModelessDiva wrote:


OP, what were your friendships in the past like..

how did they start/ why did they end

were you an actual good friend to these people, or were you just a placeholder?


i have more placeholders than anything these days..........which isnt necessarily a bad thing



I got finals, my internet was not working, didn't have a chance to reply.
Ok, in the past I had friends but never a lot. I had a small group of friend who were really good friends. I was always a good friend, but for the past years 6 years, some people I have met just wanted me to be around until they found someone who fitted better their friendship categories or whatever they were looking for in a friend.
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Originally posted by HaitianDiva64 HaitianDiva64 wrote:

That meetup.com is confusing


It is a bit. I am not sure what group to be part of. For example, since I am unemployed now, being part of the group that is for young professionals or late 20's professionals is not a good idea for me because I will feel like sh!t when I meet a girl my age or much younger who has a fabulous career and I am the loser sitting at home most of the time.

Also, I can get a bit shy, and since most of those groups have been around for a while and events are ongoing, most people know each other and I would feel left out, but I will continue to look for something on meetup that seems like a good idea to sign up.
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Originally posted by coconess coconess wrote:

signs are just interesting guys… 

i try to take it with a grain of salt but i see hella coincidences.. its hard to ignore 


so true. and numerology is interesting too. i remember when i learned about it the first time, i would do numerology of all the boys i liked, and none of their numbers matched mine. i would try to convince myself that i did something wrong, but actually the numerology was right: none of them were special and they continue to be nothing, so it was good that they didn't match my numbers and were not interested in me.
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Originally posted by ms_wonderland ms_wonderland wrote:

damn, BB...you just got dissed like a dude. 


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What exactly is a placeholder Model?

Like an acquaintance?
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Originally posted by HeyBeautiful18 HeyBeautiful18 wrote:

What exactly is a placeholder Model?

Like an acquaintance?


A placeholder is someone you keep around until you find someone better to be friends with. 






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Originally posted by sexyandfamous sexyandfamous wrote:

Originally posted by ModelessDiva ModelessDiva wrote:


OP, what were your friendships in the past like..

how did they start/ why did they end

were you an actual good friend to these people, or were you just a placeholder?


i have more placeholders than anything these days..........which isnt necessarily a bad thing



I got finals, my internet was not working, didn't have a chance to reply.
Ok, in the past I had friends but never a lot. I had a small group of friend who were really good friends. I was always a good friend, but for the past years 6 years, some people I have met just wanted me to be around until they found someone who fitted better their friendship categories or whatever they were looking for in a friend.

were you the boring friend that never wanted to do anything?

or they were users?







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i only ask cause everybody loses friends over the years but you say all of your friends left you... 

did the rest leave during the course of your relationship?
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users. or maybe they felt they "upgraded" when they found someone else.
i meant when i wrote earlier that i always had a small group of friends, not that i had one circle of friends in my life. but after i moved to the US, i would have temporary friends, never really a circle of friends, more like one friend here, another there.
i don't think i am boring, but most of those people were into drinking and partying, and back at that time i wasn't partying (and I still am no drinker; only 2 cups of alcohol and that's it) so maybe they felt I was boring.


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