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Actually, most black women don't like me.

ii can stop here and tell you believing this is why you cant make black friends 
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i dont get that thinking. i love being friends with bad bishes. if it aint me, one of us getting free sh1t 
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yeah southern...that line rubbed me the wrong way as well...

and ditto also on not getting the rationale around anyone not wanting to be friends with bad bishes...i just don't get it...
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me neither.. 

i wouldn't wanna be with a group of basic bishes. my team needs to be bad.. 

i initially wanna be friends with a pretty girl more than a basic looking girl.. sounds vain/shallow but whatevs 


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Originally posted by ThoughtCouture ThoughtCouture wrote:

oh ok.  i just read the first and last page...sorry...
 
as far as making new friends...i guess maybe you should start by understanding why your "overthinking" would lead you to those kind of conclusions...real hair, caramel skin ect.  there may be something deeper going on there, if i may be honest.
 
 
 
 
 


I want to have friends, I am not looking at their skin color. The only time I "discriminated" was when I only wanted to be friends with people from my country but that didn't work well because everyone was fake, or just used you for help with immigration purposes.

About overthinking, it is more to do with analyzing too much when I shouldn't put so much thought into things, like what Concrete Rose wrote me when she said that when I complimented some stranger and she was just like "thanks" and didn't care to have a convo, CR pointed out that maybe they just had stuff to do, NOT because they did not want to chat with me.

So that is some kind of overthinking I do.
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Originally posted by SoutherNtellect SoutherNtellect wrote:

i dont get that thinking. i love being friends with bad bishes. if it aint me, one of us getting free sh1t 


where did I say I don't want to be friends with bad b!tches?
one thing is a bad b!tch, another is some mean girl who is a fake friend, only sees and point out what is bad about you and is not a true friend.
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i think the point she was making.. is that ppl wouldn't see you and not want to be friends with you solely because you're pretty or have 1c-2c hair… like that even coming into the convo about making friends says a lot..  

like theres this mentality/air as if.. ppl don't wanna be friends with you because they're jealous or intimidated in some way (physically) 
and also for some reason lots of girls are very competitive with other attractive girls.. 

you give off really 'ew' vibes tbh 
i don't think its intentional.. but its there. 


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exactly coco, i definitely didn't meant to imply im going to be friends with you because you're cute.
i like my girls smart, charismatic...and cute LOL

but my major point is that it doesn't make sense to deny somebody or write them off because you 'think they're too cute' or are jealous of xyz feature


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when people stare at me, I hit em with the Wendy Williams "how you doin"

But I'm the type to chat your ear off whether you like me or not

If you're ever in ny op get at me
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OP where u from?
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