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you'd feel petty with friends? lol

shoot, I would say in a minute, 'gas ain't free, I need money girl' (if I needed it) to a friend. It's all good. We'd lol.
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I really hate asking ppl for money, it's one of my hang ups...I have because it's necessary but I always feel like money exchange should be this unspoken thing. And gas money shouldn't be expected among friends unless it's an all the time thing.
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Maybe you give off a stand off-ish vibe

I know that's my problem sometimes. Its just hard for me to open up to some people.

I guess its a fear of being judged or getting used? I wish I wasn't like that but its easier said than done!
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Originally posted by ms_wonderland ms_wonderland wrote:

I really hate asking ppl for money, it's one of my hang ups...I have because it's necessary but I always feel like money exchange should be this unspoken thing. And gas money shouldn't be expected among friends unless it's an all the time thing.


I agree with this, but if money is needed we're sharing it.


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I got rid of a friend she had me driving all over ny chasing her man not one dollar was offered towards gas and I missed my party and had to drop her home she lived on the other side of town from me to smh. Getting a car opened my eyes.

These hoes will use you for a ride
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Are you a girls' girl? Do you dump your girlfriends when there is a new dicc around? Like Melikey said, start with women in your family,they are built-in friendships (if they aint cray cray) and then network out to their friends.
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Step one leave the house everyday and go to one new place you have never been
Talk to everyone- practice on lines at the store, library, wherever
 
Be sincire, be the type of person you want to attract.
and meetup.com is a good place to meet people who share your same intrest
remeber friendship takes a lot of time and effort you have to give not just recieve be trust wrothy and trusting
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Girl making friends is easy, especially with black women.

Compliment her hair and ask her how she does it. Black women can talk about hair forever.

Compliment her clothes, nails, jewelry, lipstick or whatever. But don't do "I like your makeup" unless she's wearing eyeshadow, cheeks, just all around face. Then it's okay. Avoid things that might be mistaken as shade

Then converse and exchange info. Now if you can't hold a conversation then I don't know what to tell you

The key is either compliment or make a joke, but everybody loves compliments.

If she seems unfriendly, fvck that ho and keep it moving.
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Originally posted by HaitianDiva64 HaitianDiva64 wrote:

These hoes will use you for a ride


Church!!
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Originally posted by ms_wonderland ms_wonderland wrote:

Originally posted by eanaj5 eanaj5 wrote:

Originally posted by Krystal Klear Krystal Klear wrote:

Originally posted by eanaj5 eanaj5 wrote:

lol if her friends ditched her for having to give her a ride all the time then they werent good friends in the first place. A ride is nothing if you  truly wanted to spend time with someone
I don't mind helping out a friend every once in awhile , but if everytime we go out its always me picking her up that's a damper on the mood especially if she does not offer money for gas. Some people I have no idea that they are being rude or being users

I wouldnt imagine the ride being free every time, but it makes it all the more side eye worthy imo if a person is compensating with gas money and its still a problem to give them a ride to the same place you're going to.


On one side yes it's true that when you want to sped time w someone you're willing to give a ride but people without cars don't understand how extra the effort really is...going out of your way to their house on the way isn't so bad but at 2 am or 5 pm rush hour when you're heading home, it's very draining. And 50% of ppl do not just volunteer gas money and you always feel petty if it comes to the point when you need to ask.

I in fact do have a car and still wouldnt hesitate to give my friends rides if they needed it.
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