how to kill a Mans Intrerest

coconess wrote: negativity…  guys like girls who are positive and upbeat/happy.. they wanna feel like you live in a perfect world where youre never mad, irritated, or having a bad day..

trudawg wrote: attitudes neediness negativity selfies

Some of the things y'all named r character flaws in general. If a b.itch feels that way, she needs to forget a man and work on herself lol.

I say being phony is a turn off. If ur phony, any dude u want to get serious with wont like that. If urself is a neurotic, anxiety ridden, mess, then b that because if ur not willing to change for yourself, then u need to find a man who will deal with the real u.

Tell him that you believe a man should pay for all of your living expenses, including weaves, hair salon expenses and a shoe allowance.

I notice that a lot of women speak a wholeeee lot more than they listen and that kills the mens' interest in them. We are in a self centered time frame, so i think that it is common to see one person/both people being extremely self absorbed instead of some type of balance.