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Wildfire
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Location: Kingston, JA.
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Posted: Jun 13 2014 at 11:26am |
coconess wrote:
negativity…
guys like girls who are positive and upbeat/happy.. they wanna feel like you live in a perfect world where youre never mad, irritated, or having a bad day..
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Yep.
men are such children.....as soon as reality starts to kick in...real conversations, real issues.....the woman becomes a "nag"/'negative'. All of that airy-fairyness will last for as long as the relationship is superficial...there comes a point when things other than pretending/trying to be perfect, becomes much more impartant.
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iliveforbhm
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Points: 15114
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Posted: Jun 13 2014 at 11:46am |
Wildfire wrote:
coconess wrote:
negativity…
guys like girls who are positive and upbeat/happy.. they wanna feel like you live in a perfect world where youre never mad, irritated, or having a bad day..
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Yep.
men are such children.....as soon as reality starts to kick in...real conversations, real issues.....the woman becomes a "nag"/'negative'. All of that airy-fairyness will last for as long as the relationship is superficial...there comes a point when things other than pretending/trying to be perfect, becomes much more impartant. | S A lot of times and chemical reactions in the women's brain causes them to think irrational evolution mistake that causes women to make life more difficult than it already is.
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OoDles O
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Location: Cambodia
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Posted: Jun 13 2014 at 12:55pm |
trudawg wrote:
attitudes neediness negativity selfies
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not just the selfie… but the magical caption that comes with it
"typical Selfie picture" (girl standing in front of mirror with melancholy smile) "caption" "Everything in the universe has a rhythm, everything dances"
like what?
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carolina cutie
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Location: StrwberryFields
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Posted: Jun 13 2014 at 12:59pm |
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creole booty
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Location: US - Illinois
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Posted: Jun 13 2014 at 1:07pm |
Some of the things y'all named r character flaws in general. If a b.itch feels that way, she needs to forget a man and work on herself lol.
I say being phony is a turn off. If ur phony, any dude u want to get serious with wont like that. If urself is a neurotic, anxiety ridden, mess, then b that because if ur not willing to change for yourself, then u need to find a man who will deal with the real u.
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rell85
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Joined: Jul 15 2007
Location: United States
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Posted: Jun 13 2014 at 2:16pm |
Being insecure.
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Ds2nice
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Location: United States
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Posted: Jun 13 2014 at 4:53pm |
Tell him that you believe a man should pay for all of your living expenses, including weaves, hair salon expenses and a shoe allowance.
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NJHairLuv
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Joined: Dec 14 2013
Location: Chanhassen, MN
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Posted: Jun 13 2014 at 8:40pm |
OoDles O wrote:
trudawg wrote:
attitudes neediness negativity selfies
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not just the selfie… but the magical caption that comes with it
"typical Selfie picture" (girl standing in front of mirror with melancholy smile) "caption" "Everything in the universe has a rhythm, everything dances"
like what? |
 im 'bout to put that on my IG  ...
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NJHairLuv
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Location: Chanhassen, MN
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Posted: Jun 13 2014 at 8:42pm |
I notice that a lot of women speak a wholeeee lot more than they listen and that kills the mens' interest in them. We are in a self centered time frame, so i think that it is common to see one person/both people being extremely self absorbed instead of some type of balance.
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trudawg
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Posted: Jun 14 2014 at 1:04am |
DixieDarlin wrote:
trudawg wrote:
attitudes neediness negativity selfies
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Explain, lol. |
The constant need of external validation is sure fire sign of low self-esteem
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