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most people are talking about the first stages of a relationship, but what about when you have been involved for a while... I can tell for myself I a man looses my attention due to boring routines, and lack of creativity
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Originally posted by PurplePhase PurplePhase wrote:

Originally posted by rickysrose rickysrose wrote:

there are people doing everything in this thread and worse

And steeeeeeel have someone riding or dying for them

Just be you, it's enough, really





this is so true.

I checked off a few items about myself in this thread  LOL
but I already know my days are numbered.


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Originally posted by naturesgift naturesgift wrote:

So Do you think all my threads are practical? Can they just be ideas themes that are common to women? out of all the weird threads that appear on this board why do I have to be scrutinized, I am sure there are plenty of people here who would like to learn how to improve their relationship skills.. why not?


There was no shade in my post, apologies if you felt that way.
I just think you come off as needy, and that's something that turns men off. That's why I suggested you chill a bit, just enjoy your life, take care of yourself and soon you'll meet someone. You sound to be on your early 20's, but if you are in your late 30's, it would make sense why you are trying really hard to find a man.
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Originally posted by sexyandfamous sexyandfamous wrote:

Originally posted by naturesgift naturesgift wrote:

So Do you think all my threads are practical? Can they just be ideas themes that are common to women? out of all the weird threads that appear on this board why do I have to be scrutinized, I am sure there are plenty of people here who would like to learn how to improve their relationship skills.. why not?


There was no shade in my post, apologies if you felt that way.
I just think you come off as needy, and that's something that turns men off. That's why I suggested you chill a bit, just enjoy your life, take care of yourself and soon you'll meet someone. You sound to be on your early 20's, but if you are in your late 30's, it would make sense why you are trying really hard to find a man.



So much unintended shade in this post.....LOLLOLLOLLOL
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Originally posted by naturesgift naturesgift wrote:

most people are talking about the first stages of a relationship, but what about when you have been involved for a while... I can tell for myself I a man looses my attention due to boring routines, and lack of creativity


but you're also at a point where it's not about some little thing that will make him run away, it's because he doesn't like you.  every person he meets will have flaws and i guarantee the person he settles down with will have flaws that he is willing to overlook.  he has to LIKE you.  if you're boring or annoying or stupid or anything else then how can you change that?  you have to find a guy that is okay with that.
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Originally posted by ms_wonderland ms_wonderland wrote:

Originally posted by naturesgift naturesgift wrote:

most people are talking about the first stages of a relationship, but what about when you have been involved for a while... I can tell for myself I a man looses my attention due to boring routines, and lack of creativity


but you're also at a point where it's not about some little thing that will make him run away, it's because he doesn't like you.  every person he meets will have flaws and i guarantee the person he settles down with will have flaws that he is willing to overlook.  he has to LIKE you.  if you're boring or annoying or stupid or anything else then how can you change that?  you have to find a guy that is okay with that.
I am a bit confused by your response are you saying me? or anyone in general are you saying the reason Men and Women get divorced is because they suddenly realize their partners are boring, annoying, stupid??? Because I am almost sure that can be only part of the reason
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i'm saying anyone in general...not you.  either the person likes you or not.  you don't think his wife will have many of the flaws mentioned in this thread?
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Originally posted by sexyandfamous sexyandfamous wrote:

Originally posted by naturesgift naturesgift wrote:

So Do you think all my threads are practical? Can they just be ideas themes that are common to women? out of all the weird threads that appear on this board why do I have to be scrutinized, I am sure there are plenty of people here who would like to learn how to improve their relationship skills.. why not?


There was no shade in my post, apologies if you felt that way.
I just think you come off as needy, and that's something that turns men off. That's why I suggested you chill a bit, just enjoy your life, take care of yourself and soon you'll meet someone. You sound to be on your early 20's, but if you are in your late 30's, it would make sense why you are trying really hard to find a man.
I am not trying to find a "MAN" I am trying to improve my interpersonal skills in order to attract,marry and maintain my marriage. I don't see the problem with discussing the skills involved. Love relationships are not like leaves blowing in the wind.
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Originally posted by mizzsandra00 mizzsandra00 wrote:

Originally posted by sexyandfamous sexyandfamous wrote:

Originally posted by naturesgift naturesgift wrote:

So Do you think all my threads are practical? Can they just be ideas themes that are common to women? out of all the weird threads that appear on this board why do I have to be scrutinized, I am sure there are plenty of people here who would like to learn how to improve their relationship skills.. why not?


There was no shade in my post, apologies if you felt that way.
I just think you come off as needy, and that's something that turns men off. That's why I suggested you chill a bit, just enjoy your life, take care of yourself and soon you'll meet someone. You sound to be on your early 20's, but if you are in your late 30's, it would make sense why you are trying really hard to find a man.



So much unintended shade in this post.....LOLLOLLOLLOL

I guess I don't have a way with wordsCry
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