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Originally posted by coconess coconess wrote:

negativity… 

guys like girls who are positive and upbeat/happy.. they wanna feel like you live in a perfect world where youre never mad, irritated, or having a bad day.. 



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men are such children.....as soon as reality starts to kick in...real conversations, real issues.....the woman becomes a "nag"/'negative'. All of that airy-fairyness will last for as long as the relationship is superficial...there comes a point when things other than pretending/trying to be perfect, becomes much more impartant.
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Originally posted by Wildfire Wildfire wrote:

Originally posted by coconess coconess wrote:

negativity… 

guys like girls who are positive and upbeat/happy.. they wanna feel like you live in a perfect world where youre never mad, irritated, or having a bad day.. 



Yep.
 

men are such children.....as soon as reality starts to kick in...real conversations, real issues.....the woman becomes a "nag"/'negative'. All of that airy-fairyness will last for as long as the relationship is superficial...there comes a point when things other than pretending/trying to be perfect, becomes much more impartant.


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A lot of times and chemical reactions in the women's brain causes them to think irrational evolution mistake that causes women to make life more difficult than it already is.
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Originally posted by trudawg trudawg wrote:

attitudes
neediness
negativity
selfies

not just the selfie… but the magical caption that comes with it

"typical Selfie picture" (girl standing in front of mirror with melancholy smile)
"caption"  "Everything in the universe has a rhythm, everything dances"


like what?
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Some of the things y'all named r character flaws in general. If a b.itch feels that way, she needs to forget a man and work on herself lol.

I say being phony is a turn off. If ur phony, any dude u want to get serious with wont like that. If urself is a neurotic, anxiety ridden, mess, then b that because if ur not willing to change for yourself, then u need to find a man who will deal with the real u.
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Being insecure.
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Tell him that you believe a man should pay for all of your living expenses, including weaves, hair salon expenses and a shoe allowance.
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Originally posted by OoDles O OoDles O wrote:

Originally posted by trudawg trudawg wrote:

attitudes
neediness
negativity
selfies

not just the selfie… but the magical caption that comes with it

"typical Selfie picture" (girl standing in front of mirror with melancholy smile)
"caption"  "Everything in the universe has a rhythm, everything dances"


like what?

LOL LOL LOL im 'bout to put that on my IG  LOL...Confused
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I notice that a lot of women speak a wholeeee lot more than they listen and that kills the mens' interest in them. We are in a self centered time frame, so i think that it is common to see one person/both people being extremely self absorbed instead of some type of balance.
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Originally posted by DixieDarlin DixieDarlin wrote:

Originally posted by trudawg trudawg wrote:

attitudes
neediness
negativity
selfies

Explain, lol.


The constant need of external validation is sure fire sign of low self-esteem
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