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    Posted: Nov 04 2007 at 11:55am
hi ladies im ready for a new boyfriend where can i meet someone?? in my university course there are only 2 men so im never surrounded by potentials. where can i find my next victim lol i mean boyfriend? any ideas?
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I've never really went man hunting. Most of my ex's and current boyfriends have always approached me. I wasn't anywhere special either. I met one of my ex's at a high school basketball game. I was on the dance team, and we was doin our thang during half time, and he was eyeing me the whole time. After the performance, he came up to me, we became friends for like 6 months, and then decided to start dating. We lasted for about 1 and a half years but we're still friends now.   I met my current boyfriend while moving into an apartment. He was walking by, and offered to help me move my heavy boxes. Afterwards, we started talkin, exchanged numbers, and that was that. We've been together for about 4 years.
 
I dunno if I answered ur question or notLOL. I guess my point was to let ur man seek u out...Wink


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Don't go hunting, he will come to you. You always meet someone when you are not looking. Have you tried joining clubs or even socities at your university?
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Nov 05 2007 at 5:07am
Originally posted by SeXxiLuV818 SeXxiLuV818 wrote:

I've never really went man hunting. Most of my ex's and current boyfriends have always approached me. I wasn't anywhere special either. I met one of my ex's at a high school basketball game. I was on the dance team, and we was doin our thang during half time, and he was eyeing me the whole time. After the performance, he came up to me, we became friends for like 6 months, and then decided to start dating. We lasted for about 1 and a half years but we're still friends now.   I met my current boyfriend while moving into an apartment. He was walking by, and offered to help me move my heavy boxes. Afterwards, we started talkin, exchanged numbers, and that was that. We've been together for about 4 years.
 
I dunno if I answered ur question or notLOL. I guess my point was to let ur man seek u out...Wink
 
i havent been man hunting as u put it either that is why i posted on here, if i wanted to do that i wouldnt have posted on here would i?


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Originally posted by *London_Chick* *London_Chick* wrote:

Don't go hunting, he will come to you. You always meet someone when you are not looking. Have you tried joining clubs or even socities at your university?
 
the guys who approach me at the moment are not the guys i wold consider dating even the guy i am sort of dating at the moment is not wat i really want so i want to take control of my own love life for a change yesterday me and my flatmates had a dinner party with the guys who live next door, there was this cute (and single) guy there and he was eyeing me but i was quiet cause i had one too many glasses of wine LOL so didnt want to say anything stupid but he asked me to come to the bonfire night tonight..i might just go
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Nov 05 2007 at 5:42am
Originally posted by zolamorgan zolamorgan wrote:

Originally posted by *London_Chick* *London_Chick* wrote:

Don't go hunting, he will come to you. You always meet someone when you are not looking. Have you tried joining clubs or even socities at your university?
 
the guys who approach me at the moment are not the guys i wold consider dating even the guy i am sort of dating at the moment is not wat i really want so i want to take control of my own love life for a change yesterday me and my flatmates had a dinner party with the guys who live next door, there was this cute (and single) guy there and he was eyeing me but i was quiet cause i had one too many glasses of wine LOL so didnt want to say anything stupid but he asked me to come to the bonfire night tonight..i might just go
 
Think you should go to the bonfire night with him, you never know you might click (just be yourself), good luck.
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Nov 05 2007 at 6:39am
Originally posted by zolamorgan zolamorgan wrote:

hi ladies im ready for a new boyfriend where can i meet someone?? in my university course there are only 2 men so im never surrounded by potentials. where can i find my next victim lol i mean boyfriend? any ideas?
 
God helps those who help themselves. So it is perfectly fine to go out and enjoy your life. My suggestions are:- 
 
Get more involved in your local community you never know who you might meet at a community meeting, get together.
 
Do things that you are not accustomed to like join a dance class, gym whatever you do not go hunting for him but just be in the right places that would increase your chances of meeting sum1.
 
 
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Nov 05 2007 at 9:39am
Originally posted by SeXxiLuV818 SeXxiLuV818 wrote:

I've never really went man hunting. Most of my ex's and current boyfriends have always approached me. I wasn't anywhere special either. I met one of my ex's at a high school basketball game. I was on the dance team, and we was doin our thang during half time, and he was eyeing me the whole time. After the performance, he came up to me, we became friends for like 6 months, and then decided to start dating. We lasted for about 1 and a half years but we're still friends now.   I met my current boyfriend while moving into an apartment. He was walking by, and offered to help me move my heavy boxes. Afterwards, we started talkin, exchanged numbers, and that was that. We've been together for about 4 years.
 
I dunno if I answered ur question or notLOL. I guess my point was to let ur man seek u out...Wink
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You've been blessed. I get approached but never by anyone that is really worth my time. (Just plan losers!)
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Nov 05 2007 at 9:53am
where to find a bf? well i have heard groecery stores, the gym, gas stations and the mall are great spots. i honestly believe that the best way to find someone is to look your best and be open to if you find someone. men are like dogs if they feel that you are despret and really wanting a bf, it will be used against you!! if you find a guy who you think you want to know more about dont be afraid to start the converstaion but if he doesnt show any interest make a smooth getawayEmbarrassed. hth
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Nov 05 2007 at 10:14am

thanx ladies yogi ive always wanted to join a dance class like ball room dancing i wanna be able to dance like baby from dirty dancing lol!! but i wonder how many johny's will be there..of my age as well...but i'll certainly give it a go

girl, smooth getaways r my forte lol!!

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