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AwesomeAries 
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 Posted: Feb 20 2013 at 10:25am |
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Which is Why I won't be going near her
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Posted: Feb 20 2013 at 10:28am |
 ShadyLady wrote:
Ignoring a person is not bad if you know for a fact that they'll be irrational if you try to cut them off verbally.
I have no problem ignoring people when I don't wanna be bothered with them anymore. I can show em better than I can tell em. |
I've done this before. It works.
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Posted: Feb 20 2013 at 11:14am |
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Nita that's what I am thinking maybe I should tell her mother/ grandmother. |
I think this is the best idea. Call them, let them know something odd is going on with her (describe the hostage situation), and then keep it moving from there. The fact is she betrayed your friendship so you're not obligated to stay friends. But since you have been friends so long, it would definitely be nice of you to let her family know that she is having some serious issues.
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Posted: Feb 20 2013 at 1:04pm |
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Ignore their calls and when they text you say, "who is this?"
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Posted: Feb 20 2013 at 4:53pm |
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email her or write a letter saying it's over and maybe a restraining order
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Posted: Feb 20 2013 at 6:55pm |
AwesomeAries wrote:
If one of your friends does something to you to really betray your trust. You talk to them about it and they just don't seem to get it. You have been friends with this person 7 years +
Is it wrong just to stop talking to them?
Don't answer calls or text messages?
Just a note the last time I tried to stop talking to this person they had an emotional fit, took my keys out my car and pretty much held me hostage.
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Thankfully she hasn't been to my new place. I am serious she took my keys and retreated into her house. It took me 20+ minutes to get them back. |
I've been in the same situation before. She took my keys so I couldn't leave. I cut her unstable a$$ off.
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Posted: Feb 20 2013 at 7:01pm |
maysay1 wrote:
AwesomeAries wrote:
Nita that's what I am thinking maybe I should tell her mother/ grandmother. |
I think this is the best idea.
Call them, let them know something odd is going on with her (describe the hostage situation), and then keep it moving from there.
The fact is she betrayed your friendship so you're not obligated to stay friends. But since you have been friends so long, it would definitely be nice of you to let her family know that she is having some serious issues.
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From personal experience, that can go really bad. I told a former friend's mother some questionable stuff her daughter was doing cuz I was really concerned. Next thing you know, she accused me off trying to "leave her" and turn her family against her. It turned the situation from creepy/clingy bad to angry/violent bad.
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Posted: Feb 20 2013 at 7:18pm |
teendiva wrote:
Ignore their calls and when they text you say, "who is this?"
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Posted: Feb 20 2013 at 7:28pm |
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I have no problem ignoring calls or text.
One time a guy didn't get the hint so I played loud music into the phone until he hung up Lmao
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Posted: Mar 03 2013 at 7:01am |
update I went to her mother's house to tell her mother and try to help her, her mother called her to come over so everyone could talk this bish showed up, slashed my tires and left Her mother paid for me to get new tires and begged me not to whip her ass don't care what is wrong with that heifer this friendship is null and void
Edited by AwesomeAries - Mar 03 2013 at 7:02am
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