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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Feb 20 2013 at 8:21am
maybe you can change ur number and call her from *67 and tell her why u dont want to be friends anymore.

That way she can only yell and cuss u out.

But do yall live in the same town? have mutual friends?
What if she tries to follow u home?
Are u prepared to take it to the police if it goes there?
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Feb 20 2013 at 8:26am
i need more deets. 7 years is a long time in terms of friendships nowadays. i wouldn't be so quick to throw that bond away over something we can fix tbh.
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Feb 20 2013 at 8:29am
I would just tell her that you guys need a break. especially if it's just over one incident...
now if she has a 7 year history of being toxic that's another thing

but I've learned some people don't get things overnight. I cut a friend off once and in a conversation we had with him trying to "win" me back (so to speak) he brought up something I said to him moooooonths ago. something I thought was basic and felt I shouldn't have had to essentially beg for. but it took him that long to get it.

so IMO take a step back, let her know you need some space and in the meanwhile she should really take some time to think about the situation (whatever that may be) and work on herself as well.
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Feb 20 2013 at 8:30am
Eanaj we are about an hour away
We are both busy so not really the same circle of friends
I don't really think I could call the police on her tbh. I would hate to do that to a friend.
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Feb 20 2013 at 8:33am
James she had a breakdown she got in her bed. Said she wanted to fix it but she would not hear me out. She shoke her head no for like 10 minutes straight. I have never been held hostage before.

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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Feb 20 2013 at 8:36am
well she needs you nore more than ever. she's probably going through something and she hasn't told you or anyone else about it. she may need professional help at this juncture.
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Feb 20 2013 at 8:39am
I can't deal with being held hostage. I don't think that's normal. I just don't know.
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Feb 20 2013 at 8:41am
You need to stay away from her and consider your safety/personal well being.

She may inadvertently hurt you.
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Feb 20 2013 at 8:43am
Nita that's what I am thinking maybe I should tell her mother/ grandmother.
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Feb 20 2013 at 8:51am
That might be a good idea. I don't know her family dynamic but emotional/psychological issues should be addressed in any way that will help her and not harm you.
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