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Post Options Post Options   Thanks (0) Thanks(0)   Quote carolina cutie Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: Feb 17 2014 at 11:15pm
^Right?

Got folk thinkin' she sounds like Shaq with a country accent.LOL
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Originally posted by bindy bindy wrote:

Originally posted by KottonKandy KottonKandy wrote:

If your insides are already sweet, work on the outside. Be well groom, proper diction and enunciation, good posture, don't "cuss' as much or know when not too. People (who just meeting me that is) swear I'm the sweetest thing, when actually I do hood rat things sometimes LOL. What do you mean hard edge?

I am a "quiet person" before you get to know me.....I don't go around looking for trouble.....but people see that I am quiet and want to "pick on me".......then I have to "correct them"....so I think I have a look on my face that says m.f.er don't f with me......to avoid "bullies"......
 



dont worry about all that. self perception is very different from others' perception of you.

they probably think that you are the most delicate flower in the bouquet. People likely see you as super feminine and you dont even know it.

we live in a time where people live to push each others buttons, pick on quiet people just to get a rise, so it is a good thing that you stand up for yourself. people often tell me that their perception of me is 'ultra feminine & super sweet and happy but dont mess with her cuz she dont play' so i think that you just keep being you and dont worry about it. Now if your parents/siblings/granny/aunts tell you you are hard edged or mannish/masculine, that is when you need to evaluate tings. if not, dont worry about it. just live your truth.

I was born girly and feminine even in kindergarden i made the other kids gag and try to emulate me from my walk, the allure and the feminine mystique so my only advice on how to be more of a lady is to be around more people where you admire their feminine charm and it will rub off on you naturally.
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imo, a large part of being a lady is when your mouth is shut and you are minding your own business and you dont even know anyone is watching.  of course, the way that you interact with others matters, but i think that what you wear really doesnt matter too much b/c from nov-thru april when the weather breaks, im pretty much in winter snow-apocalypse with camoflage, or all black with steel toe boots on daily and 2 underbraids and i still consistently hear from strangers and random acquaintance that i am a lady. be gracious, smile warmly and genuinely when you feel like smiling and it will all fall into place.
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i cuss like a sailor, will pop it like its hot and i'm still a f*ckin lady...ha!
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chile just do you
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Life is too short to act like someone else. Be yourself.
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I am sure you are already a lady. However, perhaps you would like to act more ladylike.
Enroll in etiquette classes or just watch some older movies instead of Bravo reality shows.
Keep your curse words to a minimum and maintain your composure and keep your voice down.
Learn to walk and sit gracefully.
Wear clothes that are not too revealing. (you can be sexy and ladylike, not slutty)
Educate yourself in every way possible.
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wtf is a thot? ppl got tired of basic btch already?

degrading female names are produced faster than smart phones
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Don't fart loudly or belch.
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Originally posted by nitabug nitabug wrote:

wtf is a thot? ppl got tired of basic btch already?

degrading female names are produced faster than smart phones
 
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