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    Posted: Sep 24 2013 at 11:23am
been 4 months after we started dating. If we do get married, it would be the summer coming.
 
Everything checks out. My parents approve of him. His family approves of me.
 
Is that too soon?  I was engaged last year with a guy I had dated 4 years and didn't go through with it because I was scared and knew he wasn't the right one. This one is just...it!
 
What do you think? How soon is too soon?
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Your life, do what you want. If it is meant to be then you'll know
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If you're asking this question, it's too soon. Give it some time, things are still new.
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This shouldnt be a question ...if u think he is the one. In the end u should know. Everybody's situation is different. People meet within a month and get married within a month...some people it works for ...some it didnt.
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I think too soon is to go on 3 dates and believe the guy is the one.
If you think that getting married next Summer is too soon, that means that you aren't 100% into the idea of marrying him yet.
Once one questions oneself about their choices, it means that there's still a lot of doubts.
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Too soon. You REALLY don't know a person after 4 months, even after 4 years there can be missing pieces. And when you do think you know someone, they are only showing you what they want you to see thus far. Take your time. You still have more to learn about this person. Enjoy the stage you're currently in.

Then again, it's your life. I hope you make a good decision for yourself.
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I concur. TOO SOON.

 

You see how is when everything goes so good … but you have to see how he handles himself ... when things go WRONG in life. Like:

 

- he is close to losing his job or he loses his job. How does he handle it? Does he get pissed and nasty and take it out on people around him, sit around the house feeling sorry for himself .. or does get take a job .. any job just to pay his bills, talk to ViSA about lowering his monthly bill, get a smaller place .. all the while interviewing for something better and jumping on it. So then you know you have a survivor that can meet life’s stresses.

 

- if he gets sick .. how does he act? Like a big baby or does he see a doctor and face things head on ... like a man

 

-if his mother has an financial emergency – what does he do?

 

It's stuff like this you have to know before you get married.

 

What's the rush? If it's REAL you will still be a couple after a couple of years and a few life upsets. Getting  married so soon is not gonna insure he’ll be  there in a couple of years.

 

You wanna see what he's MADE of first. Otherwise ….  you might get stuck with a real loser that reveals his TRUE character months later and will suck the life outta you. Worse - won't give you a divorce. I’ve seen it.

 

Then everyone is gonna think 'well, she only knew him 4 flippen months before they got hitched. Duh! That’s on her!'Shocked

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