I concur. TOO SOON.
You see how is when everything goes so good … but you have
to see how he handles himself ... when things go WRONG in life. Like:
- he is close to losing his job or he loses his job.
How does he handle it? Does he get pissed and nasty and take it out on people
around him, sit around the house feeling sorry for himself .. or does get take
a job .. any job just to pay his bills, talk to ViSA about lowering his monthly
bill, get a smaller place .. all the while interviewing for something better
and jumping on it. So then you know you have a survivor that can meet life’s
- if he gets sick .. how does he act? Like a big baby
or does he see a doctor and face things head on ... like a man
-if his mother has an financial emergency – what does he do?
It's stuff like this you have to know before you get
What's the rush? If it's REAL you will still be a
couple after a couple of years and a few life upsets. Getting married so soon is not gonna
insure he’ll be there in a couple of
You wanna see what he's MADE of first. Otherwise …. you might get stuck with a real loser that
reveals his TRUE character months later and will suck the life outta you. Worse - won't give you a divorce. I’ve
Then everyone is gonna think 'well, she only knew him
4 flippen months before they got hitched. Duh! That’s on her!'