| Derri wrote:|
Yes to seek yourself in another person or thing is dangerous.
I recognize that he is an extension of me, but our source is not in each other. Our strength does not come from each other, but we share the strength that we get and we make ourselves one vessel to receive this strength at the same time to benefit our relationship.
To think you cant live without another person is very dangerous too.
Ive seen people utterly destroyed by this
Things and time and situations change, and change people. Make sure you still have enough of you, left for you, to survive whether a breakup, a breakaway, or the death of your SO