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Originally posted by Cream1970 Cream1970 wrote:

My answer at 43 is way different than it would have been at 23.
 
Once I hit my mid to late 30's, it became obvious, (thru personal experience and from those of men and women in the same age group that I've discussed this topic with), that  the "wait" time didn't make one iota of difference in how long the relationship lasted, nor had any bearing on how "good" or "bad" the relationship was.
 
Maybe it's different for younger folk, but the last time I made a man that I was interested in, wait for the sole purpose of some Steve Harvey "Make him wait for the 'cookie' bullshyt", I was (rightfully) accused of playing games by letting society dictate the timeframe in which two adults that were genuinely interested in each other, partook in sexual intercourse.
 
I couldn't GIVE him the coochie after that. LOL
 
Met my current SO a few weeks later, was feeling him and gave him the kitty on our 3 date, within  week of the 1st one. Been together ever since.
 
There are certain games you can not play with grown men. Especially when they're smart enough to know it's a game.


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For personal and religious reasons I'm not having any kind of sex. Anyone who's interested in me is aware of that somehow or another. I think I stated this in another thread but I wouldn't feel comfy with extreme levels of intimacy unless that criteria were met. By that point we should both have each other figured out and waded through the be that a lot of people don't realize until after they had sex with some idiot.

Anyone I was attracted to who wasn't in agreement with me on this, I didn't bother with them and it always turned out for the best. If anyone feels like its just an arbitrary "game" can KIM.
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Originally posted by SamoneLenior SamoneLenior wrote:


once the test results come back


^^This and the 3rd choice. Men get off on a challenge.
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Originally posted by mizzsandra00 mizzsandra00 wrote:

Depends on the chemistry......

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Originally posted by naturesgift naturesgift wrote:

till marriage + what she said^ good idea!


you get the test results before agreeing to marriage tho right? lol

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Originally posted by SamoneLenior SamoneLenior wrote:


once the test results come back

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Originally posted by mizzsandra00 mizzsandra00 wrote:

Waiting till marriage? Some of y'all would mess around and never experience sexLOL


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Originally posted by Gkisses Gkisses wrote:

Until im ready to fug. be it one day one week one month or one year....who am i kiddin i ain't waiting a year. My point is when u choose to i will. Its not set by anyone else but me.

IT'S MY VAGINA AND I CAN USE IT NOW!


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Originally posted by thewonderfulwa thewonderfulwa wrote:

When Im ready


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Originally posted by afrokock afrokock wrote:

till i have determined that you suffer from no cold sores on both sets of lips


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