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I would watch 2 virgin smang for the first time. That footage of the virgins who waited to even kiss was disturbing but i dont imagine the actual sex is worse....i hope.
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Originally posted by ThoughtCouture ThoughtCouture wrote:

Originally posted by BeatriceBean BeatriceBean wrote:

I wonder if the coochie still dry


 
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Originally posted by BeatriceBean BeatriceBean wrote:

Actually I have...had...a friend who was a virgin well into her forties when she got married for the first time. A year after the wedding they still hadn't had sex.
 
But we lost touch after that. I wonder if the coochie still dry


oh no.

she's probably taken a lover or 3 by now .

I know a few  virgins that age too.
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My answer at 43 is way different than it would have been at 23.
 
Once I hit my mid to late 30's, it became obvious, (thru personal experience and from those of men and women in the same age group that I've discussed this topic with), that  the "wait" time didn't make one iota of difference in how long the relationship lasted, nor had any bearing on how "good" or "bad" the relationship was.
 
Maybe it's different for younger folk, but the last time I made a man that I was interested in, wait for the sole purpose of some Steve Harvey "Make him wait for the 'cookie' bullshyt", I was (rightfully) accused of playing games by letting society dictate the timeframe in which two adults that were genuinely interested in each other, partook in sexual intercourse.
 
I couldn't GIVE him the coochie after that. LOL
 
Met my current SO a few weeks later, was feeling him and gave him the kitty on our 3 date, within  week of the 1st one. Been together ever since.
 
There are certain games you can not play with grown men. Especially when they're smart enough to know it's a game.
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Had a friend that got married at 28. Was a virgin. Within 6 months he gave her chlamydia, (he was cheating), which let to PID and cervical cancer.

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Originally posted by Gkisses Gkisses wrote:

I don't think many people who waited til marriage would as vocal about not being sexually compatible. Probably dont wanna hear that "told ya so" kinda stuff
people who have waited till marriage don't know if they are compatible or not they have Nothing to compare it to I know a 25 year old virgin
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i/a cream.  I always know by the 1st date whether or not I'm interested.  By the 2nd date I'm definitely interested if I'm seeing you again.  There will be sex otherwise there is no other point to all of this smiling and flirting and sh*t.  Why bother with the games.
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Originally posted by Cream1970 Cream1970 wrote:

My answer at 43 is way different than it would have been at 23.
 
Once I hit my mid to late 30's, it became obvious, (thru personal experience and from those of men and women in the same age group that I've discussed this topic with), that  the "wait" time didn't make one iota of difference in how long the relationship lasted, nor had any bearing on how "good" or "bad" the relationship was.
 
Maybe it's different for younger folk, but the last time I made a man that I was interested in, wait for the sole purpose of some Steve Harvey "Make him wait for the 'cookie' bullshyt", I was (rightfully) accused of playing games by letting society dictate the timeframe in which two adults that were genuinely interested in each other, partook in sexual intercourse.
 
I couldn't GIVE him the coochie after that. LOL
 
Met my current SO a few weeks later, was feeling him and gave him the kitty on our 3 date, within  week of the 1st one. Been together ever since.
 
There are certain games you can not play with grown men. Especially when they're smart enough to know it's a game.


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For personal and religious reasons I'm not having any kind of sex. Anyone who's interested in me is aware of that somehow or another. I think I stated this in another thread but I wouldn't feel comfy with extreme levels of intimacy unless that criteria were met. By that point we should both have each other figured out and waded through the be that a lot of people don't realize until after they had sex with some idiot.

Anyone I was attracted to who wasn't in agreement with me on this, I didn't bother with them and it always turned out for the best. If anyone feels like its just an arbitrary "game" can KIM.
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Originally posted by SamoneLenior SamoneLenior wrote:


once the test results come back


^^This and the 3rd choice. Men get off on a challenge.
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