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i want a bbq wedding like my cousin & his wife had.
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I don't know why but I see you having a formal, glam wedding NJ
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Originally posted by rickysrose rickysrose wrote:

I don't know why but I see you having a formal, glam wedding NJ


Me too.  She's such a class act. 


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I would not be engaged for over a year with no date, no premarital counseling, nothing. Smh
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BB you don't make no damn senseLOL
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Originally posted by NJHairLuv NJHairLuv wrote:

Originally posted by ThoughtCouture ThoughtCouture wrote:

summary?

SUMMARY:

*understand that the traditional engagement is not just a formal announcement of the intention to marry, it is the start of a wedding planning process that will take 0-12 months normally, 18 months max (if folks have to fly in etc).

*Anything aside from the above is dating with a ring on and the people likely are not really sure or could covertly be weighing their options or looking to get the partner to move in, split the bills, have marital style boundary free sex & homemaking without the formal commitment of a marriage license.


 
thanks nj!!!!!!!!
 
i think i would be ok with dating with a big fat ring on it...lol
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It makes sense to me LOL My views are different from the rest of the world sometimes
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Originally posted by tropical-punch tropical-punch wrote:

Originally posted by jonesable jonesable wrote:

For me it's about a year.
I'll get married in the spring so it may be a little over or under a year
you engaged? Big smile


Nah, I want to finish all of schooling first and I don't want a long engagement. But we do talk about when and the year.

He says he has the proposal set up in mind.

I told him to do it in public with his family so I can shame him and say no.
I'll playing with him though.

He's my one. No doubt
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Originally posted by ThoughtCouture ThoughtCouture wrote:


 
i think i would be ok with dating with a big fat ring on it...lol


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We sayin' yes to people we aren't sure we want to marry? Lmao.

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