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Originally posted by PurplePhase PurplePhase wrote:

Originally posted by rickysrose rickysrose wrote:

in that case epitome, I agree get married at the courthouse and have a re dedication when everything else simmers down and you've caught your breath financially



 My GF did this on her 1 yr anniv because she got married quick fast & in a hurry (planned in 3 days) the first time. She basically did a re-creation of the wedding day. We all wore same bridesmaid dresses, and everybody was in the same roles as for first wedding, same church, etc. It was nice.


eta: the wedding was a quickie because he had to leave country in  a week for business and wanted her to go w/ him and she said /put a ring on it then/ (before bey lol); he did.


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Originally posted by rickysrose rickysrose wrote:

I've wanted to renew our vows for too long now

I don't have a vision in my head yet, there's no pressing need other than that's I want and of course other things going on

So yeah I can see time getting away from you

If he doesn't want to talk about it, I still need to analyze the true why because it makes a huge difference... if you two can't talk it'll be a looooooooong 50+ years



i want to renew vows just for the dressLOL
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my brother and his wife renewed their vows on the 5th anniversary in Bali.
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 I think couples do renewals sooner now than they used to. 
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Originally posted by sexyandfamous sexyandfamous wrote:

Originally posted by PurplePhase PurplePhase wrote:

Originally posted by rickysrose rickysrose wrote:

in that case epitome, I agree get married at the courthouse and have a re dedication when everything else simmers down and you've caught your breath financially



 My GF did this on her 1 yr anniv because she got married quick fast & in a hurry (planned in 3 days) the first time. She basically did a re-creation of the wedding day. We all wore same bridesmaid dresses, and everybody was in the same roles as for first wedding, same church, etc. It was nice.


eta: the wedding was a quickie because he had to leave country in  a week for business and wanted her to go w/ him and she said /put a ring on it then/ (before bey lol); he did.


aaaaaawwww Cry
are they still together?Smile


yep
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Originally posted by jonesable jonesable wrote:

For me it's about a year.
I'll get married in the spring so it may be a little over or under a year
you engaged? Big smile
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Originally posted by EPITOME EPITOME wrote:

Originally posted by rickysrose rickysrose wrote:

I've wanted to renew our vows for too long now

I don't have a vision in my head yet, there's no pressing need other than that's I want and of course other things going on

So yeah I can see time getting away from you

If he doesn't want to talk about it, I still need to analyze the true why because it makes a huge difference... if you two can't talk it'll be a looooooooong 50+ years



i want to renew vows just for the dressLOL

Girrrrrrrllllllll that is the only thing I've focused on Cry


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Something private and intimate, I love that Purp

We're past ten years but I'll still get side eyes and eye rolls LOL

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I don't mind a long engagement....That will give me enough time to really decide if I want to marry him.

 I rather have a long engagement than a short marriage.
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I cosign everything uppitynegroid said

If you're engaged longer than a year or two with no wedding date in sight, you're just a girlfriend with a ring
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