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keepgrowing 
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If they are planning in those two years ok fine. But if he is getting agitated every time she brings up wedding plans and there is no date then ummmmmm........
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jonesable
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Posted: Jun 19 2014 at 11:55am |
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Yeah the issue here is even the time frame.
It's the man!!!
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Posted: Jun 19 2014 at 11:55am |
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That whole year and a day thing started with the Wiccans.
The Chinese typically were 2 years and Catholics about 6 months.
For those in arranged marriages like in India.
You can be engaged for years until you were a certain age then you would meet and marry and go through the ceremony.
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They are not engaged. They are betrothed to each other, sometimes since childhood. That's totally different from a man making a public declaration of his intent to marry you and not having any plans to actually do it 5 years down the line.
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Posted: Jun 19 2014 at 11:56am |
jonesable wrote:
Yeah the issue here is even the time frame.
It's the man!!! |
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Posted: Jun 19 2014 at 11:56am |
mizzsandra00 wrote:
goodm3 wrote:
uppitynegroid wrote:
Decorum really alludes many young people nowadays. I think what I've
gotten from this thread is that some people see a marriage proposal as a
romantic gesture. That's just not the case. Its not a "I would like
to marry you some day." A proposal is a big deal. Its a formal
declaration of your intent to marry in the immediate future. If both
people are not ready for that, then they should stick to more informal
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EXACTLY.
i seems a lot of women only want to be called wifey rather than having a marriage license.
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When people actually get the proposal they really understand it.......until then its a case of if it was me but it aint you and daydreaming is easy
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I understand but I think a lot of women never set expectations for their relationships. there are women out there who seriously believe they will not ever get married so when a guy moves in...they think that's as good as it gets.
Couples that really want to get married, do it. Whether its a court house wedding with a fancy ceremony/destination wedding later...either way, they make it official.
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Posted: Jun 19 2014 at 11:57am |
ms_wonderland wrote:
Majesty02 wrote:
I swear people will forever blame the woman for a man’s shortcomings, and inadequacies. It’s not always the MAN that doesn't want to get married, sometimes it’s the Woman. I know because I was in that situation. I was engaged for a few yrs. but I never was really excited about setting a date. Looking back God was trying to warn me. Thank God I was able to dodge the bullet.
Just because 2 people are engage, or in a relationship doesn’t mean everything is cupcakes, and Starburst. Ultimately people should do what is best for them according to their situation, not society’s standards of how things should be done.
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then they shouldn't be parading around pretending to have cupcakes and starbursts.
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Posted: Jun 19 2014 at 11:58am |
bunzaveli wrote:
jonesable wrote:
Yeah the issue here is even the time frame.
It's the man!!! |
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Posted: Jun 19 2014 at 11:58am |
jonesable wrote:
Yeah the issue here is even the time frame.
It's the man!!! |
But the woman is allowing it to linger on.
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Posted: Jun 19 2014 at 11:59am |
ms_wonderland wrote:
Majesty02 wrote:
I swear people will forever blame the woman for a man’s shortcomings, and inadequacies. It’s not always the MAN that doesn't want to get married, sometimes it’s the Woman. I know because I was in that situation. I was engaged for a few yrs. but I never was really excited about setting a date. Looking back God was trying to warn me. Thank God I was able to dodge the bullet.
Just because 2 people are engage, or in a relationship doesn’t mean everything is cupcakes, and Starburst. Ultimately people should do what is best for them according to their situation, not society’s standards of how things should be done.
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then they shouldn't be parading around pretending to have cupcakes and starbursts.
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Gyal who are you talking about? Not everyone does that. I can only speak for myself, and I NEVER pretend like everything was perfect in my relationship. Truth is people change over time, and their true colors start to show over time. Which is when I left him, and haven't looked back since.  I dodged a bullet fah real
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Posted: Jun 19 2014 at 12:00pm |
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She just can't sit and pout. Either have the honest conversation with him or move on
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