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Originally posted by uppitynegroid uppitynegroid wrote:

If you call yourself engaged and there are no concrete wedding plans, then you are dating.  I swear this generation does not understand what an engagement is.

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Originally posted by tatee tatee wrote:

he probably proposed just to get her to move in but still be free enough just in case something better comes along.  its not like she's going anywhere.

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If you call yourself engaged and there are no concrete wedding plans, then you are dating.  I swear this generation does not understand what an engagement is.
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Originally posted by uppitynegroid uppitynegroid wrote:

If you call yourself engaged and there are no concrete wedding plans, then you are dating.  I swear this generation does not understand what an engagement is.
ah ah... dating with a ring... possibly LOL 
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 I swear people will forever blame the woman for a man’s shortcomings, and inadequacies. It’s not always the MAN that doesn't want to get married, sometimes it’s the Woman. I know because I was in that situation. I was engaged for a few yrs. but I never was really excited about setting a date. Looking back God was trying to warn me. Thank God I was able to dodge the bullet.

Just because 2 people are engage, or in a relationship doesn’t mean everything is cupcakes, and Starburst. Ultimately people should do what is best for them according to their situation, not society’s standards of how things should be done.  

 

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Originally posted by Majesty02 Majesty02 wrote:

 I swear people will forever blame the woman for a man’s shortcomings, and inadequacies. It’s not always the MAN that doesn't want to get married, sometimes it’s the Woman. I know because I was in that situation. I was engaged for a few yrs. but I never was really excited about setting a date. Looking back God was trying to warn me. Thank God I was able to dodge the bullet.

Just because 2 people are engage, or in a relationship doesn’t mean everything is cupcakes, and Starburst. Ultimately people should do what is best for them according to their situation, not society’s standards of how things should be done.  

 


then they shouldn't be parading around pretending to have cupcakes and starbursts. 


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Originally posted by ms_wonderland ms_wonderland wrote:

Originally posted by Majesty02 Majesty02 wrote:

 I swear people will forever blame the woman for a man’s shortcomings, and inadequacies. It’s not always the MAN that doesn't want to get married, sometimes it’s the Woman. I know because I was in that situation. I was engaged for a few yrs. but I never was really excited about setting a date. Looking back God was trying to warn me. Thank God I was able to dodge the bullet.

Just because 2 people are engage, or in a relationship doesn’t mean everything is cupcakes, and Starburst. Ultimately people should do what is best for them according to their situation, not society’s standards of how things should be done.  

 


then they shouldn't be parading around pretending to have cupcakes and starbursts.

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5 years keeps her mind that she is just one step from marriage and for me it's the barrier that allows me to keep evaluating if marriage is really for me while I get a home cooked meal and sex in the regular.
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Why be engaged if both people are not prepared to be married in the near future? 
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