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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Jun 19 2014 at 9:32am
Yeah that's a thing some guys do and when they do marry it usually falls apart in a few years.
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Jun 19 2014 at 9:32am
Originally posted by CherryBlossom CherryBlossom wrote:

Originally posted by uppitynegroid uppitynegroid wrote:

I was listening to a discussion about this on the radio the other day.  A woman called in and said she dated a man for 3 yrs, he proposed and they have been living together and engaged for over 2 years.  Every time she brings up wedding planning he becomes elusive and difficult.  Her question was, "How long is too long to be engaged?"

I think she was asking that question a 2 years too late.  I seriously weep for my generation!  The entire point of becoming engaged is to formally announce and plan a wedding.  For the life of me, I don't understand how a woman winds up being someone's fiance for years. 

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clearly he doesn't want to marry her...

anything more than a year is too long imo..don't waste my time jare!




lol, you're so naija. 

That's what the radio host politely said.  Basically something to the effect of, "I think he proposed to shut you up."
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Jun 19 2014 at 9:29am
Originally posted by maysay1 maysay1 wrote:

Well I want to be proposed to and married on the same day.

But for others, if they have to ask the question then it's been too long. I know some people have put off the actual wedding until the location they want becomes available.

Getting married only requires filling out some paperwork. If you want to be married, it doesn't take years.


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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Jun 19 2014 at 9:27am
Well I want to be proposed to and married on the same day.

But for others, if they have to ask the question then it's been too long. I know some people have put off the actual wedding until the location they want becomes available.

Getting married only requires filling out some paperwork. If you want to be married, it doesn't take years.
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Jun 19 2014 at 9:25am
About 5 years up to maybe 10.
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Jun 19 2014 at 9:24am
I was listening to a discussion about this on the radio the other day.  A woman called in and said she dated a man for 3 yrs, he proposed and they have been living together and engaged for over 2 years.  Every time she brings up wedding planning he becomes elusive and difficult.  Her question was, "How long is too long to be engaged?"

I think she was asking that question a 2 years too late.  I seriously weep for my generation!  The entire point of becoming engaged is to formally announce and plan a wedding.  For the life of me, I don't understand how a woman winds up being someone's fiance for years. 

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