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its been like 1-2 years for me, still ain't completely over it. 
guess he just really messed me up 

i never been the get a rebound type person right after a break up
call me boring but im just not into it *shrugs*

the thought of dating *shivers*

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Post Options Post Options   Thanks (0) Thanks(0)   Quote Lady ICE Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: Jul 08 2014 at 1:07pm
Originally posted by TOUSHA11 TOUSHA11 wrote:

For me it depends on the gravity and length of the relationship. I try to move on Asap because honestly I do not know how long I have on this earth and I do not want to spend it grieving over someone who does not want me anymore.
man...youre good. *takes notes* my last break up was horrible im still a bit wounded from it. *sigh*
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yeah it can take a while to 'get over' a breakup especially if it was a long relationship/serious.
But  how long before you move on/date again? whether you're 'over' the person or not. Folks married for 20+ years still not over their high school sweetheart lol, and will tell you that.  

But  I sorta think that the longer you go without putting yourself out there to date, the longer it will take to get over the person.  I guess it's a conundrum though--if your heart is broken you don't want to be out there dating, but if you aren't out there dating your heart will feel broken much longer.

eta: I say fake it til you feel it.




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Post Options Post Options   Thanks (0) Thanks(0)   Quote eanaj5 Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: Jul 09 2014 at 7:28am
its been two years this week since my break up, i miss him sometimes but im not thinking about him everyday like before, i also have a distraction or two so that helped
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Two years
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Somewhere between 1 week and 1 month. I tend to move on quickly. I'm good at swallowing pain though. Ppl tell me I'm really strong but I just bottle things up and then they don't exist anymore. It's not strength, it's a cop out defense mechanism I learned during times of unhappiness growing up but it works for me. I'm not a "look back" type of person except when it comes to one relationship but even then it's a happy thing, there was never a real mourning.
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