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    Posted: Jul 07 2014 at 3:37pm
After a break up, how long does it usually take you to move on/start dating again?

are you the type to be mentally going thru your 'friend list' during the breakup conversation?LOL or does it take you a while to want to date anyone? And does it matter if the break up was your idea or not (as far as how soon you start back dating)?

I know it depends on length of relationship and commitment level but just for fun and since it's dry.

bonus: what's the longest you've gone from a break up to dating again?
wth--gone and tell us the shortest tooLOL


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oh this may get moved to Relationship section. 
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For me it depends on the gravity and length of the relationship. I try to move on Asap because honestly I do not know how long I have on this earth and I do not want to spend it grieving over someone who does not want me anymore.
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Originally posted by TOUSHA11 TOUSHA11 wrote:

For me it depends on the gravity and length of the relationship. I try to move on Asap because honestly I do not know how long I have on this earth and I do not want to spend it grieving over someone who does not want me anymore.


that's a great outlook.

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by the time we break up i've already moved on. i don't have time to spend thinking of someone whose no longer in my life. my friends say its easy for me to move on because i'm always one foot in and one foot out in relationships. i'm known to start dating before even having the break up conversation. i can be really cold blooded though i try not to be. majority of my relationships have lasted longer than they were suppose to because i was too much of a punk to break up so by the time that conversation took place it was a breath of fresh air and on to the next. yeah i know i aint shyt. 


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Pretty quickly I'll give myself 2 months before dating again.
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Between this guy and the last, less than 2 weeks. 
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Originally posted by smaison smaison wrote:

by the time we break up i've already moved on. i don't have time to spend thinking of someone whose no longer in my life. my friends say its easy for me to move on because i'm always one foot in and one foot out in relationships. i'm known to start dating before even having the break up conversation. i can be really cold blooded though i try not to be. majority of my relationships have lasted longer than they were suppose to because i was too much of a punk to break up so by the time that conversation took place it was a breath of fresh air and on to the next. yeah i know i aint shyt. 




I thanked it.
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If I initiated the breakup it didn't take long at all. I would probably have a date lined up that weekend. But in all honesty these were guys that I never really loved. 

I was dumped once and it took me by surprise and it took a little while to get over him. He was my high school sweetheart. I didn't really want to date anyone because I had gotten so used to being with him and we just knew we were soul mates and supposed to get married. We got back together for a few years and I broke up with him.

Until this day he says thats messed up how I married someone else. He said I moved on so easily and that he thought we would still end up being married because we had a child together. No sir. LOL 

My son always says " Ma you know dad still loves you right?" 

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