How long do you typically hold a grudge?

SweetNovember* wrote: I'd have to know teendiva's side of the story. People are so quick to take sides. That didn't come from out of nowhere.

http:// forum.blackhairmedia.com/how-do-i-raise-300-in-a-week_topic254031_page1.html



True story, I really don't mess with people. Before I continue pleading my innocence, I'm going to look through this thread, again, to see if I said something to set her off.

But I just don't see myself saying something to her to leave an impression for three damn years. And I don't like a whole lot of attention myself, so I had no real intentions of starting a thread about it. Plus, I'm not really here that often so I don't know what triggered my name in her brain

I thought it was kind of a punk move that she decided to block me though .... I wasn't going to say anything more than what I had already said. I don't tell people I wish they would die, I don't call them ugly\fat\skinny\slow, and I'm too grown to get my feelings hurt because someone else is hurting & wants to take it out on me

This thread is pure hilarity .

ETA: I'm mad that link won't work for me lol.

Edited by ShadyLady - Mar 03 2013 at 2:22pm

What in the hell did I just read about 7 pages ago???

But to answer the question at hand, I don't hold grudges like I used to. It takes too much out of me as a person to hold grudges against people. It's just too much energy to exert for people who don't deserve to be in my life..

If someone hurts me to the point to where its a point of no return, then I remove them from my life. The person is not worth the energy I would have to use in order to stay angry at them.

RoxieDream wrote: ShadyLady wrote: This thread is pure hilarity . ETA: I'm mad that link won't work for me lol. You might have to just copy & paste it into the browser

My nosey butt found it thru Google, but that's too many pages .

I must say GK it's killing the gif usage in the few pages I did read lol.

I miss Sarakaun. She was my fav poster of 2009...