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Originally posted by jonesable jonesable wrote:

Do you try to reconcile before it comes to that?

I pray I never get to that point where I hate someone.
and hold a grudge. The thought even makes me feel icky.

no

not if they continue to do the same things
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hmmm


i will always remember not to help that person when they are in need
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I generally don't hold grudges. Life's too short.

 If someone does something wrong to me, or makes me upset,  I voice my opinion, then leave it alone and forgive.

I'm too young to go through life with anger, hatred, or any animosity and I'm too old to give a rat's behind about petty issues.


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Originally posted by fairyQueen092 fairyQueen092 wrote:

I don't give anyone reason to hurt me. If they do, they dont belong in my life.


This, I don't hold grudges but you will not be a part of my life again.

I'll remain cordial if the situation calls for it but that's as far as it will go.

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Originally posted by Lilaca Lilaca wrote:

hmmm


i will always remember not to help that person when they are in need


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whole lotta lies itt......

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I don't....
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I have had to learn how not to hold grudges (especially against people really close to me that I really love/d) that have hurt me deeply. It just makes me overthink everything and harbour negative energy when I should be concentrating on positive things. 
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Holding grudges is too much stress. 
I've learned to cut a person off, just walk away, move on.

Life is too short to continue to stress over a person I don't even like or love.
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GK, I encourage you to send both ladies the link to this thread. As of now, I think it's unfair to them both because they may not know what's going on in this thread and they're missing the opportunity to clear things up . 
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