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SamoneLenior
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Posted: Mar 03 2013 at 6:30am |
jonesable wrote:
Do you try to reconcile before it comes to that?
I pray I never get to that point where I hate someone. and hold a grudge. The thought even makes me feel icky. |
no
not if they continue to do the same things
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Lilaca
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Posted: Mar 03 2013 at 6:43am |
hmmm
i will always remember not to help that person when they are in need
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purpulicious01
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Posted: Mar 03 2013 at 6:49am |
I generally don't hold grudges. Life's too short.
If someone does something wrong to me, or makes me upset, I voice my opinion, then leave it alone and forgive.
I'm too young to go through life with anger, hatred, or any animosity and I'm too old to give a rat's behind about petty issues.
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Posted: Mar 03 2013 at 9:31am |
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I don't give anyone reason to hurt me. If they do, they dont belong in my life. | This, I don't hold grudges but you will not be a part of my life again.
I'll remain cordial if the situation calls for it but that's as far as it will go.
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ModelessDiva
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Posted: Mar 03 2013 at 9:32am |
Lilaca wrote:
hmmm
i will always remember not to help that person when they are in need |
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Bunnyahh
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Posted: Mar 03 2013 at 9:52am |
whole lotta lies itt......
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babyk94
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Posted: Mar 03 2013 at 10:03am |
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I don't....
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alynxx
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Posted: Mar 03 2013 at 10:13am |
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I have had to learn how not to hold grudges (especially against people really close to me that I really love/d) that have hurt me deeply. It just makes me overthink everything and harbour negative energy when I should be concentrating on positive things.
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Katrenia
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Posted: Mar 03 2013 at 10:17am |
Holding grudges is too much stress. I've learned to cut a person off, just walk away, move on.
Life is too short to continue to stress over a person I don't even like or love.
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GK, I encourage you to send both ladies the link to this thread. As of now, I think it's unfair to them both because they may not know what's going on in this thread and they're missing the opportunity to clear things up .
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