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Originally posted by StylingArabella StylingArabella wrote:

10! I am the type of person that thrives better with structure, companionship and security. We were together a few months before we got married. Been married since 08' and still going strong.


This may be a nosy question to ask, but how long was a few months before you got married? Was it more than 3 months? Because the people I know who've gotten married in less than three months are all struggling in their marriage. U guys must've been very open with each other in such a short period of time to have made it work this long.
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Not at all important to me!
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10.
Need to be engaged 2/3 years into the relationship.
Married1-2 years after that.

no kids before marriage.
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Originally posted by JoliePoufiasse JoliePoufiasse wrote:

Age and previous experiences have an impact. I have this dude right now who I was perfectly happy keeping as a lover but now he's pressuring me for more. I don't want to live with him, I don't want to pick up socks and I sure as hell don't want to marry at this point. I don't know what's gonna happen with me and him because I care about him but I don't think our priorities are the same. I want a companion to have fun, share things and travel. I already know I'm past babies so what's the point of putting a ring on it? (unless he's a billionaire, lol)
unless youre over 50, id still try for kids
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10. Need to be engaged after 1-2 years. I'd like this before 30
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Yes it is important to me..So I give it a 10. It is a commitment, when done for the right reasons, that holds weight. 

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Originally posted by Y.Gun Y.Gun wrote:

10.
Need to be engaged 2/3 years into the relationship.
Married1-2 years after that.

no kids before marriage.
 
 
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Originally posted by Dapheny Dapheny wrote:

On a scale from 1-10
Do you think age has an impact on how important marriage is for an individual?
How long do you expect to get married after entering a relationship?


Just curious! :)


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Married or at least engaged in < 1 year

No kiddos before marriage either
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And to expound on the age part, I've notice that the value/importance of marriage usually increases as one ages. Most young individuals hold little to no importance to marriage, and see it as something to do when you get "old, wrinkly, and boring" and after youve had "fun."

Ofcourse there are exceptions. I knew that i wanted to get maried in my early 20s, an earlier age than average.

Marriage is a very beautiful thing, if done correctly and the time, commitment, sacrifice, and effort is put in from both sides to make it successful.
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10. For me it has never be about getting married by a certain age. However, I do want to be married and have a family. Sometimes, I  think that just because I get married, I may not have kids. Parenting is another dimension added to marriage that I don't think everyone is cut out for.

I would only want to be engaged for 6mos max.

Definitely no kids before marriage.

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