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    Posted: Feb 25 2014 at 1:27pm
or just casual convo.. its a  real burden on me because causal convo always been difficult. I  been trying and havent been too successful. people say how you doing,  I say im fine, they respond with further convo, I barely respond, and from there im pretty much suck in a zone where  people know  not to expect much from me.  I  said I was becoming a Jehovah Witness and at the kingdom hall (the place of worship) a few people didnt even know I could talk... but I plan on adding certain common phrase people use in such situations. ill even ask how are you doing back and even first and things like nice to meet you as well.
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Some people aren't good at small talk , I have to be in the mood to engage in it and I prefer it not be about foolery. 
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It generally develops with maturity, although some may just be reclusive individuals. I usually chop it up with everyone unless I have sh*t on my mind. I stop communicating with those who do not reciprocate and write them off as unfriendly.
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Originally posted by Princess Grace Princess Grace wrote:

Some people aren't good at small talk , I have to be in the mood to engage in it and I prefer it not be about foolery. 
how are you doing?
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Originally posted by trudawg trudawg wrote:

It generally develops with maturity, although some may just be reclusive individuals. I usually chop it up with everyone unless I have sh*t on my mind. I stop communicating with those who do not reciprocate and write them off as unfriendly.
some people write me off as incomprehensible
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LOL, I'm feeling great and you? You can only say you are doing fine if you are not in the presence of a cornball. If you do you are opening yourself to the line of " you sure are but I asked how you doing"  and we don't want that. 
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Originally posted by trudawg trudawg wrote:

It generally develops with maturity, although some may just be reclusive individuals. I usually chop it up with everyone unless I have sh*t on my mind. I stop communicating with those who do not reciprocate and write them off as unfriendly.


you really don't care for introverts, do you?
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Im awkward at it.....because most times I don't care and its a chore to fake it.....when the convo is interesting its effortless
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Originally posted by SamoneLenior SamoneLenior wrote:

Originally posted by trudawg trudawg wrote:

It generally develops with maturity, although some may just be reclusive individuals. I usually chop it up with everyone unless I have sh*t on my mind. I stop communicating with those who do not reciprocate and write them off as unfriendly.


you really don't care for introverts, do you?
how are you  doing?
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I think you have to develop the habit like a muscle especially if your not a natural.

I'm not a natural by a long shot. One Summer I forced myself to do some day time holla sessions.
It was tough but it helped. Its all about treating it like a performance until you become more comfortable.

I'm still mad awkward … and this is from somebody who goes on stage to do open mics sometimes too.
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